Homeless on Tuesday

Great Need

2012-01-25T08:36:00.002-05:00

Last night at Food for Life we met three adorable children. The father has come many times before, and he asked Paul to pray that he would be reunited with his family, but it didn't work out like he had hoped. The mother moved back in with him and brought the children, and then she left them all there. They have almost nothing, but he says he does have a job and a place to live, probably an apartment. Food for Life will be collecting items to help this man with his children.
They have one bed, but they need more beds for the three children. The children are ages 2 (girl), 4 (boy), and 7 (boy). There is a need for all household items and furniture, diapers, and clothes. There may be a great need for babysitting, but Paul and I are going to try to go see where he is living and assess the situation better tomorrow night.
Please drop off any donations at Streetside Catering, 5010 Old Spartanburg Rd. Taylors, SC. Streetside is located across the street from Brushy Creek Baptist Church.

Newspaper Article

2011-06-11T15:28:00.007-04:00

This was a good article about Paul and Food for Life Ministries in the Greenville News last Wednesday. I included it in this post in case anyone missed it.

He was a late Blumer, but he's at top speed now.
Paul Blumer, a restless 32 when he became a Christian, is now a 42-year-old entrepreneur brimming with enthusiasm and energy. He pours much of that energy into his catering/cafe business in Taylors, where he is executive chef in an operation that prepares about 4,000 meals a week.
By 6 p.m. each Tuesday, Blumer is investing energy into the Food for Life ministry. Now in its 10th year, the ministry matches both of Blumer's greatest passions — serving good food and encouraging spiritual growth.
Each week, Blumer joins about 15-20 volunteers — including wife Charity and parents Mark and Bonnie Blumer — to prepare and serve a meal to any hungry souls who might arrive at the Triune Mercy Center, on Rutherford Street near downtown Greenville. The meal, and the opportunity to talk about spiritual matters, is offered freely. The Tuesday meal is one of three the nondenominational mission church serves each week as part of its ministry to the homeless.
Blumer, who had worked in the Greenville food industry since his teen years, got the idea for his work with the homeless shortly after his spiritual awakening in October 2000.
“I had a vision for a ministry called ‘Food for Life.' The ministry would feed the spirit, soul and body of a person,” says Blumer, who began the process by leading Bible studies in Carpenter's Cellar coffee shop on Main Street. With help from other volunteers, he assembled backpacks filled with Bibles, blankets and personal hygiene items and offered them to the homeless and needy.
As he began to build relationships with homeless men and women, his ministry stretched to other nights of the week. Often, he would take leftover food from Strossner's Bakery, where he then worked as a manager, and distribute it to anyone he happened to spot on cold winter nights along Washington Avenue.
As the Bible study grew to nearly 50 from zero — he was alone on his first four weeks of the Bible study — Blumer's group soon outgrew the location. At about the same time, with his father's financial support, Blumer opened Streetside Catering in Taylors.

In 2003, Blumer moved the ministry to the Triune Mercy Center, where a kitchen and a welcoming atmosphere waited. His catering company provided the food.
“At about that time, we stopped being a Bible study and started being a ministry,” says Blumer. “But we're not just a soup kitchen. The ministry is a lot more than what we do Tuesday nights.”
Over time, donations have helped him feed the clients, which number 60-80 each week. His passion to see others grow spiritually motivates him to bring the message.
“In the Scriptures, you see that Jesus identified with those he ate with. When you minister to the homeless, one of the hardest things for them is to listen to someone who doesn't know them or doesn't care about them,” Blumer says. “Having a meal together helps break down that barrier.”
It costs the group about $150 a week to provide the meal. Through more than 500 Tuesday nights, Blumer has always managed to find the funds.
“We don't have a lot of money in the bank, but God has always supplied the need,” says Blumer, who gets regular donations from the SOS Thrift Store and individuals.
Blumer shows no signs of burnout, in part because of loyal support from volunteers. During the months when North Greenville University and Evangelistic Institute of Greenville are in session, the group has numbered as many as 70.
“A couple of years ago, I was feeling discouraged. One day I realized that it is not my ministry — this is God's ministry. I really don't know anything. All I do is stand there and proclaim that God's word is truth,” says Blumer. “If I do that and love people, God can use me.”

Rejoicing in God's Provision

2011-06-09T15:43:00.002-04:00

This Tuesday was awesome! Although volunteers were sparce, God was working away! I got to hear good news about Mike, from the last blog. His Mom allowed him to come back home! That is God's Mercy at work folks. Then I was able to speak with a young man named Blake. He was just hired on at a Waffle House! Awesome! He said he would keep his head down and I told him to keep his chin up at the same time! God has been so Good to Blake because he has been on the street for a year now and is looking forward to an apartment in the near future. Wow. We were praising and thanking God in prayer by the end of that conversation. We also heard good news that Sean is out of the Hospital and back in his apartment and even washing cars already! It's not all bad news every day. God is working and we need to be careful to give Him the thanks and praise. But it is Hot outside and we need to pray that God would look after the needs of each and every Homeless person in Greenville. Thanks, Dan

One the street at 21

2011-05-04T10:21:00.003-04:00

I shared with a young man named Mike last night at Food for life. He was there early at 6 and looked lost and new so i asked for his name and shook his hand. He asked if it was ok if he was there.. i said that was fine. I asked if he would sit down and share his story with me. And that took us for a 2 hour ride. Mike was into drugs at the age of 12. He said it went from being a "big deal" to later down the road watching the rerun of an old t.v. show you don't even like. He said that he began to be isolated from old friends and then it was just a couple of them and then he was alone more and more. But to be on the streets was the farthest thing from his mind. It wasn't until he was fired from his most recent decent job that he said he snapped. He said he went on drinking binges and using... He couldn't handle the stress. He was kicked out of his house, lost his car and more all in a matter of a few weeks. He ended up out on the street looking for a place to stay dry carrying everything he owned.

I asked Mike if he knew why all that happened to him. He said it was because he was stupid. I said all of us are stupid and do dumb things that's not the answer. I asked him if he went to Sunday school when he was a kid. He said he did. I asked if he remembered the story of the wise man and the foolish man. This is where the foolish man placed his hope in anything but God (sand) and the wise man placed his hope in God alone and first (rock). I then explained that He had been placing all his "hope" in his job instead of where God designed it to be. So when the storm came he went bezerk and couldn't handle it. He said life isn't like the movies huh? I said no, movies are for entertainment not for how to live. The Bible is for how to teach us to live.

Mike said that he said a prayer last night all of his own accord. I hope in God that 10 years down the road Mike will look back and say WOW look what God has done in my life. What about you? Can you look back and say, WOW? If not, you and I can "repent" or change our minds and start to put our confidence in God first and the gospel of Jesus and then build your house of expectations carefully on the Rock. So if a hurricane comes on shore we will be left standing and not be washed away.

- Dan

Volunteers to Post

2011-05-04T09:19:00.004-04:00

It has been weeks since we have posted on this blog. It is not because there is a nothing to say, it is just finding the time. However, we continue to meet every week and feed the homeless and share the gospel. This week we served 85 meals.

In the future we will be asking some of our volunteers to post weekly sharing their own experiences and how God is using them to change others lives. I look forward to reading these reports each week.
~Marc

Why We Are There

2011-03-28T13:51:00.003-04:00

We are all looking forward to this Tuesday night with the homeless. We are asking God to provide for all of our needs, volunteers and homeless. We realize that needs of the homeless are many and they are basic that we may take for granted; like shelter, dry clothes, and food. But we all have a need for a personal relationship with God through Jesus Christ. This is a need that we all have whether we are a volunteer or a homeless person.

Each Tuesday night we try to fulfill the most important need we all have. How can any of us see that need unless someone explains the Gospel which is available to everyone. That is why we come downtown each week. So Glory to God. May we see more either turn to or return to God through Jesus Christ.

Henry Singing

2011-03-09T05:38:00.003-05:00

Henry is a real Renaissance Man of the homeless community. He writes, paints, and sings among other talents. He has more talent in his little finger than I do in my whole body. Triune Mercy Center gives opportunities to homeless to expand their God given talents and to perform for others.

Programs

2011-02-15T06:57:00.001-05:00

I was talking with an individual who was scheduled to enter a program the following week. He seemed to lack the conviction that he could complete it or that it would do him any good. If fact, he said he would not do this if it had not been forced on him by the courts. The main problem, he explained, was that if anyone crossed him, he could not help but to retaliate. Of course, that is what got him in trouble in the first place. I tried to encourage him that not only could he complete the program but that it could help him. Then explained his real problem.

When he was a child he was tied up and beaten by his father. He could not understand why he was treated that way and why his mother allowed it. He had a hate love relationship with them. He said he was taken away a number of times because of the beatings but always to be returned to his parents and the abuse. Once he become older and strong enough to defend himself, he became the abuser to anyone who got in his way.

We see sin every week in others and in ourselves. His sin is justified in his own mind because he was treated a certain way. But sin lucks in all of our hearts and we are always trying to find a reason for our behavior other than looking within ourselves. The only real program that works is to be transformed by the Holy Spirit. Become a new creature. One who loves God and each other by God’s grace through faith in Jesus Christ. That is the program that we present each Tuesday night. That is the only hope.

Rainy Days

2011-02-08T15:12:00.001-05:00

Last Tuesday it was pouring rain. I always feel so sorry for the homeless when they come in wet knowing that the best they can do is dry off inside. Unlike myself, who was wet, will go home later and take a hot shower and put on dry clothes. I am uncomfortable for a few hours while they are uncomfortable all night. Even later they will get wet again walking to the mission. Naturally, many did ask for a ride from the volunteers but the general rule is we don’t give rides. One commented to me as he left, everyone wants to be a friend inside but not friend enough to give him a ride to the mission. That comment made me feel bad considering the circumstances.

One of the homeless came in walking with a cane and taking tiny steps. He has been around for as long as I can remember. He has always been friendly even though he has been on the street for years. I saw him many times cry like a baby during the service, so bad that I would get him a tissue to keep his nose dripping on his clothes. I once visited him up the street. where he was sleeping next to a building. It was very cold that night and we had some blankets to pass out. Tonight he looked real bad. The nurse at Triune said he had taken his first dialysis today and he would probably not make it to the mission on his own. We decided to get a cab for him after he ate. As another homeless held an umbrella for him, he made his way to the cab. I thought to myself that the cab should be going to a nursing home instead of the mission. What will he do in the morning at 6:00am when they turn everyone out. Wherever he goes it won’t be an easy walk.

Tonight we served 120 meals with the assistance of 22 volunteers. Gordon, one of the volunteers, gave his testimony. Everyone said it was amazing what God has done in his life.

Numbers

2011-01-24T05:35:00.003-05:00

As we start the New Year, I was thinking of how many people that helped us last year and the meals reported each week. It really adds up, but the most important number is not reported each week. That is the number that accept Christ and mentored by one of the volunteers, the many people that receive funds to help them keep their lights or heat on. How many that are driven to detox or put in a room for the night due to illness or provided a coat or a blanket for a cold night. The really important numbers many not be reported but they are the most important because they represent lives of people that are in need. So even though we report each week on meals served and volunteer hours, that is not the most important numbers.

With that said, last week we served 146 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers.

Food for Life Cancled because of Weather

2011-01-11T11:33:00.003-05:00

Food for Life is canceled tonight due to the fact that Triune is closed because of weather, and the 40 degree shelters are open and most of the homeless will be staying there and eating there.

Christmas for the Homeless

2010-12-23T05:26:00.002-05:00

Last Tuesday night was filled with cheer, good food, and presents for the homeless. Everyone, including the homeless was in a good mood this time of year. Even though they may live under a bridge in the freezing cold or sleep on a pew in a church to get out of the weather, everyone was happy. One of the homeless was giving out Christmas cards to all of the volunteers and mentioning, by the way, he could use a little change. Even Homeless Eric got in the spirit of Christmas by helping wash the pots and pans. That was a first. All of the volunteers were happy as well. Many enjoy volunteering this time of the year by bringing their children and spending time with the less fortunate to make them appreciate what they have as a family.

Tonight we served 149 meals with the assistance of 32 volunteers. Thanks to everyone who helped wrap all the clothes and gift cards for the homeless. If you happen to go to Liquid Highway downtown and see a lot of homeless people, it is because each of them received a gift card for $5.00.

Merry Christmas!
~Marc

Christmas Gifts

2010-12-15T16:24:00.005-05:00

Food For Life is collecting the following items for Christmas presents for the homeless: L or XL mens coats , warm blankets, gloves, warm socks, toothbrushes, candy bars, McDonalds gift cards. Items should be clean! Please do NOT donate: women's coats, adult clothing, childrens clothing, and childrens coats. These are not needed at this time. Drop off items at Streetside catering by this Sunday please! We will be giving them out next Tuesday night.

Also, we are accepting cash donations to purchase the gift cards for food. Since our numbers have increased in the last month, we expect to have a big demand next week. Thanks to everyone that supports Food for Life with your service, money, and prayers.

Food for Life Canceled for Tonight, November 30.

2010-11-30T13:19:00.001-05:00

Food for Life is canceled due to Paul and Bonnie's work and Charity being sick. We will be back up and running next week.
Charity

Thanksgiving, A Time of Giving and Thanks!

2010-11-24T16:08:00.005-05:00

Thanksgiving is a time that so many people sit down and try to think of ways that they can give to others. This is especially important to families. It is a great time of year for parents to teach their children the importance of giving to those in need as they consider all of the blessings in their own lives. Some people give to orphans and foster children, others reach out to single moms or widows, and others desire to lend a helping hand to the homeless. A question I am sure we all want to ask ourselves during this time of year is this, "How can I truly help in a lasting way, and not unintentionally hurt?"
Scripture talks about the importance of giving materially to those in need as an act of grace. We are told to make sure to reach out with a heart of generosity in the name of Jesus as if we were serving Him personally. Those acts of grace are so important, but what a difference we could make for the long-term if we used those acts of grace as a means to build a relationship, make a connection with the people in need. What a true act of grace it would be if that plate of food that we served led to a conversation, that conversation led to the sharing prayer requests, that sharing led to the joining together to pray, and that prayer was the beginning of a friendship. What a difference that would make!!!
There are so many churches and so many people at Thanksgiving time that do acts of generosity to the homeless but never make an effort any other time of year. Because of this, it is easy for the homeless to disconnect with the people who are giving to them. The homeless person could leave the facility with a full belly, a warm coat, and a heavy heart.
This Thanksgiving, as we think of the things that we are most thankful for, such as our salvation and our family and friends, let's remember that what makes us blessed most of all is not the clothes we wear or the beds that we sleep in, but our relationships. Relationships with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and with others who truly care about us are the things we are most thankful for, and these relationships are the things that enable us to flourish in our lives. The homeless community is no different. This Thanksgiving, let us give with the same heart of generosity with which we give every year, but let us give the two greatest gifts we can offer, the gospel and our friendship.
~Charity

Lawlessness

2010-11-20T14:58:00.003-05:00

I could talk about the constant verbal and physical abuse that some experienced last Tuesday night. But that could lead to the conclusion that this type of lawlessness was representative of the homeless community, which it is not. Sure we have times when there are disagreements between individuals, but it is not something that can not be resolved. I am reminded that this lawlessness is every where. My next door neighbor was robbed in her garage when she got home from work. I did not need to go downtown. I could have looked out the window for a lesson in lawlessness. Just watch the news on TV for another look at our society. The homeless are constantly on guard but we are not. They know for a fact that some resolve their differences with violence. We think everyone is basically a good person and we think it will never happen to us. But it does. The Bible teaches us that we are not good but bad. It is our nature so why would anyone be surprised that some would act up downtown. They act up everywhere. Laws can not change people’s hearts, only God can. That is why we go downtown. Not to feel good after feeding the homeless in a sterile environment. But to go downtown and preach the gospel which is only thing that will change a heart of a homeless person or a volunteer.
~Marc

Problems with Working

2010-11-14T15:06:00.005-05:00

It is very difficult for most of the homeless to obtain any type of employment. Too many prospective employers want an address and home phone number which none have. So some of the choices available is working as a day laborer, usually through a company downtown, or looking for homes that they can do some yard work. Since most are not covered by any labor laws many are cheated out of their wages one way or another. At least, that is what I hear from most, although, I know there are two sides to every story.

Paul helps many out by hiring some to wash dishes at Streetside. This helps some to move up to a motel room, at least temporarily, but some will work and continue to stay on the street by choice. It is a real challenge to hire a homeless person because none have transportation which means providing a taxi service, which usually falls on one of the Streetside employees. Many don’t mind for a short period of time but it can be difficult if they are really busy. But if someone doesn’t provide that service, then you can be sure they can not be dependable even on good day.

Last Tuesday night a couple of the homeless had come up with a good idea to make some money. They decided to be street entertainers. According to them they had even acquired the proper permit from the city. So they started their enterprise by providing entertainment with the meal. They were very good, but at first the audience seemed to only focus on eating. But after playing a few songs, many did give them an ovation, although it was not standing.

So if you see them performing on the street maybe you could give them a couple of dollars. It is still work and they are providing a service that deserves some reward.
~Marc

Hungry Folks

2010-11-02T15:32:00.004-04:00

We served 133 meals last Tuesday. I can’t remember serving this many meals in the past, other than Thanksgiving two years ago. It seems more and more people are in need. Fortunately, we continue to receive support from some wonderful volunteers. Not only those who show up, but some who prepare food in advance for us. One of our volunteers recently prepared meat loaf for over 100 meals. We added some chicken and vegetables with ice cream for dessert for a meal. Everyone said it was great. One individual told me, as he was leaving, that he had never had this much food at one time. He said that it was especially good for him because he had been hungry all day. We use food to make connections with people. If we can show some compassion for a hungry person then we have the opportunity to present the Gospel to all who have ears to hear.
~Marc

Change of Clothes

2010-10-24T11:19:00.002-04:00

What do you do when your clothes are dirty? He is a black man who looks like he just stepped out of a time machine from the sixties. He has a large afro with an equally large and long beard. I saw him many times in college either debating politics or demonstrating against the establishment. It was not actually him but maybe a clone that could have ended up on the street and never changed or probably more likely would have ended up in suburbia with a wife and nice clean children. But that was not him.

I would like to take his picture but he does’t want me to. So I don’t. I know his pant and shirt size by heart because every week he wants a change of clothes. Washing is out of the question on the street but changing into clean clothes works. Usually he asks for a hygiene kit which is not always available. Last week we looked around and did find some deodorant, hand lotion which had good smell, toothbrush and toothpaste. He was set for another week. He is not the only one who comes in each week asking for clothes, but he is the most consistent. He does not come for the preaching or the food. He stays by himself and only appears when you got the goods. I wonder what kind of stories he could tell. I know he appreciates the help but he wants to be left along.

Last Tuesday we served 85 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. Dan preached the message which was well received by everyone. Most come for the meal but there is a core group that wants to hear the Word. That is why we are downtown. To provide not only physical but more importantly spiritual help in the lives of those who are poor in spirit.
~Marc

Moving

2010-10-18T06:43:00.002-04:00

Moving can create a lot of stress. There are so many problems to deal with such as giving up a place that you have become used to, as well, as the people that you have bonded with over the years. Then there is the problem of finding a new place. Of course, you look for location, location, and location. Other things matter, but that is primary what you would look for. Then there is the stress trying to find out where things are located and how to get around. I have experienced this more times than I would have liked in my life. But there is some satisfaction and relief when you find the right place. You usually want to show it to someone. It is no different for the homeless. They experience all the same emotions changing locations.

We had an opportunity to talk to a homeless who had not been in Greenville for years. This person had moved on to better things only to return. Things don’t always work out like you expect them. Finding a safe place to sleep in Greenville had been the first priority, but it had taken longer than expected. The stress was evident each week as this person looked around for a safe place to sleep and finding out how to get around in Greenville again. Things had changed. Then last week we were informed that the perfect place had been found. In fact, we just had to go with this person that night to look it over. It was downtown next to a highway but it did seem secluded. There were very thick trees with an opening in the middle. From the outside, you would not even notice there was an open space in the middle and it was downtown which met the location requirement. This person explained that in the morning there were birds in the trees to sing and it just seems so peaceful. Never mind that there is a lot of noise from the traffic. It was the perfect place. I felt like I was attending a house warming party. So naturally we presented a small gift for the new home.
~Marc

Big Crowd

2010-10-01T15:12:00.002-04:00

None of us are sure of the numbers that will turn out on each Tuesday night. That means we come downtown not knowing how many homeless or volunteers will show up. Sometimes we get more than we can handle and other times we wonder where everyone has gone. Is there something happening on the street that is more appealing or is there something on the tube tonight? But this Tuesday everyone showed up. We had a capacity crowd from the street and local volunteers. There were so many volunteers that Paul had to conduct the volunteer prayer, before the service, in the hallway instead of the kitchen which is a much smaller area. But we consider this a blessing because many had the opportunity to minister to folks who are in need.

The total count for the night was close to 150 individuals. There were over a 100 plates served and many more prepared for take out. Many of the volunteers came from North Greenville University, Evangelical Institute, and East North Street Baptist along with our regular volunteers that show up every week. These numbers give everyone many opportunities to share the Gospel.
~Marc

Hope

2010-09-24T14:58:00.004-04:00

A riddle. You can’t see me. You choose where to put me. You need me as much or more than food. Without me you would die. What am I?

That was Dan’s riddle for us last Tuesday night who was filling in for Paul. The answer is hope. He said that hope is for the soul like oxygen is for the body. It sustains us through difficult times. The Apostle Paul said in Romans 15:13 that “now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit”. True hope is putting the full weight of your trust in Jesus Alone. Only then will you have hope. This message was for all of us.

It was apparent that the homeless appreciated his message. One decided to give Dan a dollar. That is very unusual since most only will ask for a dollar. Dan tried to give it someone else he thought was in need, but that person declined. He told Dan “you got that dollar for preaching” Later he did find someone to bless with his wages. Thanks Dan for your serve to Food for Life.

We served 75 meals with the assistance of 22 volunteers. Everyone was fairly calm, with one exception. One individual, sporting a golf club, threatened to tee off on another homeless person in the food line. Fortunately, he left before there was any serious confrontation.
~Marc

Observation

2010-09-17T14:01:00.002-04:00

Last week on Tuesday, I was talking with a volunteer that has not been downtown in a couple of years. That thing that really surprised him was the change in the demographices of the poor and homeless. Now the group is much younger which includes women (some even pregnant). He commented that when he was volunteering a few years ago that most of the homeless were middle age men. They consistently showed up every week and for the most part listened attentively to the preaching and were calm while eating their food. Now some become angry easily when being served regardless how patient the volunteers are. Usually they want specific food or two plates instead of one and can not understand why they can’t get what they want. We try to set some rules to make sure everyone gets something to eat. It is a different group to some degree and some are definitely not happy.

As I write this observation, I wonder how I would act if I was in their circumstances. I probably would be worse. We all expect things to go right for us and when they don’t we look for someone to blame. However, if the truth be known, we are responsible for many things that happen to us and it is hard to accept responsibility. So what is the answer? The same as it has always been. We need to be transformed by the Holy Spirit. That is what fuels us to go down every Tuesday and fellowship with the poor and homeless regardless of their behavior.

Last week we served 100 meals with the assistance of 24 volunteers.
~Marc

Lesson Learned?

2010-09-03T06:37:00.004-04:00

We get many requests from the homeless each week. I know there are a lot of needs if you are living on the street but cash is usually at the top of the agenda. The reasons given are mostly for a bus ticket or for some breakfast for the next day. Obviously some of the requests are legitimate and some are not. The key is making that determination which is difficult. Lately I have been thinking that if the requests are every week then you know something else is going on. Finally I decided that I would follow the house rules and not give out any money for any reason. If someone needed something, I would purchase it for them then there would be no question in my mind whether it was a legitimate or not.

If you spend any time downtown with the homeless, you can expect to run into them at other times during the week. I was going in to a store the other day and sure enough there was a homeless guy out front that I had seen downtown. It appeared that the manager of the store was having a few words with him about loitering. I knew he would recognize me so I waved at him as I entered the store. I kept thinking while shopping that I probably would see him later. Sure enough he was there when I left the store and wanted to talk to me. It seems he needed something to eat and wondered if I had a few dollars to spare. My new rule was not to give money but to purchase what was needed to make sure the request was legitimate. However, I broke my own rule and gave him all the money I had, which was not much. I really wanted to go home.

The next Tuesday night I saw this individual and asked him what he used the money for that I had given him. His answer was “I have to be honest; I bought a can of beer”. That was not what I wanted to hear. Obviously, rules should not be broken if I really want to help someone. In this case I only contributed to his addiction and I hurt him.
~Marc

Is It the Church's Job to Alleviate Poverty?

2010-08-15T22:04:00.002-04:00

We recently began a book study with the volunteers from Food for Life in which we are studying the book, "When Helping Hurts, How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor and Yourself," by Corbett and Fikkert. We will be continuing the study through the end of September. During this time that we are reading the book and considering its teachings, we are asking ourselves the age old question, "Is it the church's job to alleviate poverty?"

Well, such a question can cause all kinds of thoughts to rattle around in the mind of a Christian. Ultimately, we all know that God alone is equipped and able to truly alleviate poverty. So the answer to that question ultimately is, "No, it is God's job." However, did God not call believers over and over again to submit themselves to be the instruments through which He cares for the poor? The echoing answer to that question is, "Yes, yes, yes!"

Those who have traveled throughout the world know that poverty in the U.S. looks very different than poverty in many other countries. However, Scripture is clear that God calls believers to be involved in ministering in the community in which they live, specifically to the poor, widows, and orphans. Well, there is a growing ferver for taking care of the orphans. Adoptions are taking place all around our communities. As well, in most cases widows are taken care of by their own families. However there seems to be a lack of passion in many cases when it comes to taking care of the poor. Or could it be that there is a lack of understanding as to what that will have to look like here in the "Land of Opportunity"?

Most believers understand the story of the Good Samaritan, and would gladly do the same, if by some random chance they saw a person beat, wounded, and in need of clothes on the side of the road, they would not pass him by but would lend a helping hand. However, most of the poor among us are not going to be in such obvious need before our very eyes and in so directly in our path that we trip over them.
So to the church here in the U.S., what does helping those who are living in poverty really look like? One might be tempted to even say or at least think, there is opportunity everywhere, if they are poor, it is their own fault. So then we must ask ourselves the question, is it the job of the believer to pick and choose who they should help? Do we have the privelege of making judgements about who "deserves" our help and who doesn't?

I propose to you that there are two chategories into which most people living in poverty in the U.S. will fall. One chategory includes the individual that is poor due to no fault of their own, for example the widow, the orphan, or the abused spouse that has been abandoned with little financial resources. The second chategory includes those who are experiencing poverty due to the results of their own sin, for example those who are lazy, irresponsible, trapped by additctions, etc. Is it the church's job to be instruments of mercy to both chategories of poverty, or do we get to differientiate which chategory each poor person falls into and then decide who deserves our help? And then when that determination has been made, is it going to be as easy as helping the Good Samaritan, a sacrifice that only involved about one day or so of service and financial assistance. Wouldn't it be easy if we could do random acts of kindness that only took one day of our time, energy, emotion, and financial resources and feel that our job was done...we had accomplished helping the poor as the Scripture says.

I propose that the answer to the question, should we be willing to help the poor in both chategories according to Scripture is most assuredly, "Yes!" The difference will be in how we help. There are individuals out there that only need a little financial assistiance, a job, or a home and their lives will be improved forever. However, those who are poor due to their own sin need help as well, but that help must come in the form of relationship. The sacrifice is much greater when a Christian answers the call to help the poor individual in this situation, because it is not just a one-time act of sacrifice, it is a lifetime of building a relationship that with God's power will change that person's life and alleviate poverty. That is the call that God delivers to the believer through Scripture, "Come and share your life, Christian, to be an instrument of mercy to the poor?" Will you answer the call?
~Charity

Reconciliation

2010-08-09T09:26:00.006-04:00

He can be a little intimating, especially if he is under the influence. I always have to remind myself that God loves him and we should too. To have a private conversation is difficult but tonight he wanted to talk to me about his situation. He said he was tired of living this way. Last month he was fined for a nusiance charge which took about half of his disability check and now he was here trying to get some food. He said alcohol had him by the throat and demonstrated it by grabbing his throat. He said he knows he should trust in Jesus and I reminded him that he would also have to repent. I explained that it was more than just going a different direction but it was a change in desires. And the only way to accomplish that is by the Holy Spirit. Then you will have different desires and different friends. I told him how God has changed Paul in so many ways and immediately tears started rolling down his cheek and he said “I can’t let anyone see me like this”. As he wiped the tears away, another homeless showed up and started talking to him and his demeanor changed and he regained control of emotions. Something happened in that moment that turned his attention away from the spirit to the world. It was time to eat.

Paul is currently teaching a Bible study for the volunteers based on a book titled When Helping Hurts (short title) by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert. This discusses homelessness and poverty and how to alleviate them. To understand how to do that we have to understand what the universal problem is for them and us. The bottom line is reconciliation. Since the fall we are all separated from God. Reconciliation means to put things back into the right relationship again. That can only be accomplished through Jesus Christ. “The goal is to restore people (homeless or not) to a full expression of humanness to being what God created us all to be, people who glorify God by living in right relationship with God, with self, with others, and with the rest of creation” (page 78). This is a necessary first step to help others come out of poverty and addiction.

I would like to give a special thanks to all the GE employees who held a fund raiser last Friday night at Star Lanes Bowling. The money raised will be donated to Food for Life and another worthy charity. I was surprised how many people showed up for this event and it looked like everyone had a good time. Their goal was to raise $1,500.of which some of the funds will be used to purchase kitchen equipment for Triune Mercy Center. We are grateful for all of the volunteers who support Food for Life.
~Marc

Packed House

2010-08-01T10:36:00.003-04:00

When Paul assembled all the volunteers in the kitchen for prayer, it was packed. There were so many volunteers that they flowed out into the hall. Closing the door for privacy was not an option tonight. Most were youth and adults from Simpsonville First Baptist Church and East North Street Baptist Church. It is always a pleasure to have local youth come out and assist us in ministering to the homeless

After the preaching, many of the youth set up a table of pictures as a way of sharing the gospel with the homeless. For instance, they asked them to pick out photographs that reflected their current situation and their interpretation of God. These questions lead to further discussions to consider. Even though many of the youth were very young, they were not intimidated dealing with the homeless.

In addition to unusual amount of volunteers, we had a packed house of homeless who had come to get out of the heat. We served 110 meals with the assistance of 32 volunteers.
~Marc

Regulars

2010-07-25T08:35:00.009-04:00

Even though he is a large man, most would not know he was in the room because of his quiet nature. He usually comes in and heads for the back of the room and stays mostly to himself. But tonight he seemed a little agitated. I know him by name because he has been around since the start of Paul’s ministry. Usually he will acknowledge me by a few words and go about his business of getting some food. I remember years ago, I asked him if he believed in God and his response was “only a fool wouldn’t”. However, further discussions at that time revealed that he didn’t believe in the deity of Christ.

He walked up to me and placed a little book in the palm of my hand. The title was “Love”. I flipped through the pages and it appeared to be poems. On the inside cover I noticed there was a list of names he had written. I asked him about the names and he said the first one below his was his sister whom he has not seen for 22 years. The second one was his brother. I couldn’t read his shaky hand writing so asked him his brother’s name. He told me and then asked if he had spelled it correctly. Before I could ask about the other name he abruptly went in the room where Paul was preaching. I learned later that he caused a few problems although none that Paul could not handle. It was like he was a different person tonight.

One of our other regulars proudly showed me a letter from a local college that accepted him for the fall semester. As I looked at the letter I wondered about the address since he changes addresses often. He told us how the college had arranged for a loan from the Department of Education to be repaid later when he gets a job. He hoped to receive an Associates Degree as a paralegal. Later as we gave him a ride to a friend’s house, he said that most of the homeless spend too much time listening to their thoughts like “you will always be homeless” or “you will never get a job”, but he says he ignores those thoughts and just keeps on trying. He still has hope for the future.

Tonight, we served 92 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. It seems we are getting more people as the temperature rises. A cool auditorium for a few hours is better than hanging out on the street in the sweltering heat.
~Marc

Housing Problems

2010-07-18T13:07:00.004-04:00

I watched him limp toward the bridge late Tuesday night. He was fighting the pain as he leaned heavily on a homemade walking stick. The stick was really a substitute for a crutch but did not seem to give much relief. I looked at the under side of the bridge and marveled at the size of the huge concrete pillars. I had driven across this bridge many times but did not fully realize how huge it really was. His home was under the bridge along with many others. It looked as if it could house a small city. Cool in the summer but probably not very warm in the winter. But it was some place to get out of the rain and stay dry. He had waited a long time to arrange his ride from Triune Mercy Center.

Paul had been talking to a homeless lady who was very depressed. She is pregnant and to make matters worse, her fiancée had hit her that day. She felt like giving up because no one seems to care. She said she tries to work so she can pool her money with his so they can get a room each night. That can be difficult because some times she works 12 hours but only gets paid for 3 hours. Many of the homeless are taken advantage of as day labors. She is determined to keep her boy when it is born but knows to do this she must have a permanent place to live. Right now that looks unlikely. Paul kept asking her how he can help but she just shakes her head. He offers to put her in a room tonight but she thinks there are others who need help too. Paul assures her that he can help only one person at a time and right now he wants to help her.

There are all kinds of stories and difficult situations on the street. Although we try to meet many of the physical needs, we are convinced that the best thing we can do is present the gospel and pray for all their needs. Nothing is impossible with God.
~Marc

Give and Take

2010-07-11T11:01:00.001-04:00

The homeless have feelings too. Last Tuesday night one of the homeless shared with us that his best buddy died. Through his tears he related how they stuck together by sharing a “bunker” (sleeping quarters) and if the truth be known, also a bottle. I could tell that he had a touch of the same stuff when he came in. We talked and Paul shared with him that this should be a wake up call. The same thing could happen to him. Therefore, he should be ready. But I couldn’t see in his eyes any connection with him and the fate of his long lost buddy. He seemed oblivious to the obvious that Paul was trying to impress upon him. I think he just wanted some sympathy from someone who cared about him. But to change his life style, he was not ready for that.

Some of the homeless panhandle each Tuesday night among the volunteers. One finally was noticed by the pastor of the church and was banned for three months from entering the premises. She told one of the volunteers that she has to use parenting skills as much as skills learned in seminary to deal with the homeless. We certainly can relate with that.

One thing I have learned with dealing with the homeless is that many want to help. Of course, they can not come into the kitchen and start cooking (some have tried). That area is strictly for volunteers. However, they are welcome to help clean up which is a necessary job that most of the volunteers shy away from. So many times I try to use anyone that offers to help. It helps me and I thinks gives them a sense of accomplishment even if it is just sweeping the floor or taking out the trash. Most of these individuals never ask for anything other than to help out. Why not allow them to contribute each Tuesday night.

So we see each Tuesday some that give and others who take. The homeless are no different from the rest of society. I think that is why we can’t stereotype the homeless as lazy or alcoholics, even though some are, because we can see the same characteristics in our families, friends, and coworkers. The homeless are just people. They are all different. But one thing they have in common is a need for redemption from sin. Of course, that is why we go down each Tuesday night to share the good news for us and them.
~Marc

Medical Needs

2010-06-30T11:49:00.007-04:00

I have mentioned many times about the various needs of the homeless. Some are life threatening and others are not. One of the individuals that assist them with their life threatening needs is a nurse that is assigned or loaned to Triune from St. Francis Hospital. I got to talk to her last Tuesday night.

She outlined her responsibilities for minor things like taking blood pressure to major things that revolve around medications that are necessary to maintain their health mostly for diabetics or high blood pressure. The homeless can go to the emergency room for a health assessment and get their prescription, but getting it filled is another thing. Since most don’t have the money they rely on her to help them cut through the red tape and get it filled.

Currently, the nurse told me that they have to go to one agency to be certified as homeless. This agency will issue a letter to that effect which they must be taken to another agency to get the prescription. That is a lot of walking or they need a bus pass to get from one place to another. After that is accomplished, then there is the challenge for them to keep up with the prescription and take it as directed. Since they don’t necessarily have a place to stay, it is not uncommon for them to lose it within day on street. Then there is the problem if they are incarcerated. Any kind of prescribed drugs are taken away from the homeless, so when they get out they have to start all over to receive the necessary prescriptions. Even though it is challenging for her, it is obvious she loves her job because she genuinely cares about the people she is helping each day. All of us at Food for Life salute her for her unselfish service and dedication to the most vulnerable in society.

This week most of the requested needs ranged from tooth ache medicine to a roll of toilet paper. Although not life threatening, I guess both requests are very important to that one individual.

We had a good crowd this week. We served 65 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers.
~Marc

It is Sad

2010-06-23T06:36:00.005-04:00

It is sad to witness the condition of many who cannot resist the devastating effect of stimulants on their body and spirit. Also, it is sad when it not only affects them but also others. The purpose each Tuesday night is to share the gospel and love on others. But when someone can’t stand up and wants to stumble in while Paul is preaching, you know things could go very wrong.

That is what happened this week. When I saw him I knew there would be trouble. But I thought to myself, maybe not this time. But I should not have ignored the signs of trouble. I wasn’t in the room but I could see through the window. Everyone was standing up in the corner and two men were yelling at each other. Many immediately took control and ushered both from the room. Unfortunately, they continued their disagreement on the side walk. One hit the other and he fell in the street even though others were trying to break up the fight. I knew at that point that I had to call 911.

Two patrol cars showed up and everyone scattered. Some took off across the street and others that were helping to break up the fight went back into the building for the rest of the sermon. No one was arrested and everyone calmed down. It was a good outcome to a very tense situation. I guess many of the homeless experience this many times each week but we don’t deal with this very often. Most are very respectful and some even grateful for the food and fellowship. But our desire is to reach everyone so we can not turn some away just because there might be trouble.
~Marc

God's Invisible Attributes

2010-06-16T06:52:00.004-04:00

It was hot last night and all of the homeless couldn't wait to get inside to feel the cool air conditioning. A large container of ice water was appreciated by everyone. Usually in this kind of weather we see hot tempers as well, but this week everyone seemed to be content to just "cool it". The weather continued to go from one extreme to another. A thunder storm moved in with heavy rain and lighting. I wondered if we would lose electricity before we could finish cooking the dinner. Fortunately that did not happen until everyone had finished eating. And by then the sun had come out and there was enough light for everyone to finish their meal. As everyone was leaving there was a beautiful rainbow in the sky. Most did’t notice but some did and commented that they were amazed at the power and the beauty of God. I thought about Romans 1:19-20. “For what can be known about God is plain to them, because God has shown it to them. For his invisible attributes, namely, his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly perceived, ever since the creation of the world, in the things that have been made. So they are without excuse.” God was reminding everyone of His existence.

This week we served 90 hot meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. Many were the GE employees. No one could miss them with their green company shirts, although one individual only had his shirt hanging around his neck. I guess he fulfilled the requirement for company attire.
~Marc

What I Have Learned

2010-06-02T23:15:00.003-04:00

The following is the testimony that I gave last Sunday at North Hills Community Church. Marc asked me to put it on the blog this week. ~Charity Blumer

When I first started going to Food for Life, I was not even dating my husband. I had met him and thought that it sounded like a great ministry, so I started volunteering.

I believed in the church’s responsibility to care for the poor, but I thought that would look like me giving them money or items that they needed and maybe serving a meal at a place like Food for Life. At first, everyone who volunteers, including myself, starts to wonder what makes a person live a lifestyle of homelessness, since many of them have been coming to Food for Life for years. I quickly drew some conclusions about them, like this one is a drug addict, this one is a bad alcoholic, this one can’t read therefore can’t get a job. I observed their lifestyle choices, the drugs, alcohol, prostitution, immorality and general disregard for marriage, and without premeditating to do it, that is how I defined them when I thought of them. It was how I made sense out of why they are the way they are.

It has taken me all the way until this year to alter my thinking, after really learning some things about my own sin nature and also getting to know some of them better, and re-evaluating my whole way of thinking about how to help the poor and needy. I started getting to know their stories, and I discovered that there isn’t just one reason that they are the way they are. They aren’t homeless just because they are drug addicts, alcoholics, prostitutes, or lazy. There are many layers that explain why they are living this sad lifestyle.

And the thing that I have been struck with the most is that they really aren’t that different from me. There was a time when I would have said, “I could never be homeless, I would rather die than spend one night on the street, and I would do anything to make sure that I never had to.” But I would have spoken out of ignorance. As I have considered their histories, I have realized that most of them have experienced more abuse, neglect, and hardship than I can even comprehend. If I had experienced the kinds of things that most of them have, I would be just like they are.

What makes me different from them really has nothing to do with me. I was born into a different life, with wonderful parents and great opportunities and the grace of God all around me. It was a gift that had nothing to do with me.

So now when I look at them I don’t think, “How could you let yourself live this life,” I simply feel overwhelmed with compassion, and even though I know that for many of them it is going to take a Holy Spirit miracle for their lives to change, I hope and pray that I get to see the miracle take place.

GE Day

2010-05-26T06:49:00.002-04:00

Volunteers from General Electric came in force last night. They were all in green company shirts filling every space in the kitchen. Many of the homeless had not seen them before and one asked me if it was St Patrick’s Day which I replied that it was just GE day. It is good to have volunteers but it can be difficult to coordinate that many new volunteers. But the food was prepared on time although the banana pudding was made without the pudding but no one seemed to notice.

Zak preached for Paul tonight. He brought a powerful message and didn’t seem to be distracted by the comings and goings of people in the room. That can be difficult at times unless you stay focused on the message. There were a few disturbances but most were resolved although one individual was sent packing.

As usual there were many requests such as rides every where, money, socks, shirts, gasoline, electric bills to be paid, medication, and two stamped envelopes. One individual wanted us to take some legal action against the police for harassment. We did as much as we could for the resources available.

We had a smaller crowd last night. We served 68 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers.
~Marc

What's His Story?

2010-05-19T11:00:00.003-04:00

I have had many volunteers say to me “what’s his story”. What they mean is why is he homeless or what happened to him that resulted in his situation. Of course there is no one answer. We all end up in our current situations because of the influence of others and our own personal decisions. But most of the time nothing turns out like you would expect it. Most would not choose homelessness. Although there are a few that has learned to live with it and probably would not give up this life style. Many have had terrible family situations more varied than I have time or space to write about. Then there are many that just make bad choices i.e. drinking, drugs, or crime to name a few. Then it can be a combination of both problems. All of this can devastate anyone and the street is the result.

Many of the volunteers are reading a book titled “When Helping Hurts” (short title). The authors premise is that the poor is a result of brokenness of foundational relationships. Everyone was created to live in a right relationship with God, self, others, and the rest of creation. But the fall was a problem for everyone. So the first thing is to realize there is no difference between them (homeless) and us (volunteers). We all have the same problem. So when we say what’s his or her story, we could just as easily say what is our story.

Our story last Tuesday night included serving 68 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. We were blessed to have a group from East North Street Baptist Church. They jumped right in helping in the kitchen, serving, and spending time with the homeless. We are always grateful for active volunteers. There are always a lot of needs and no one person can possibly help everyone. ~Marc

Flying a Sign

2010-05-12T08:11:00.006-04:00

I was in the bathroom last night at the Homeless Ministry and this guy came in singing:

It’s wonder I’m not a criminal. It’s wonder I’m not in jail. It’s wonder I’m not insane. I’ve got too much time on my hands.

I never heard the song but it’s a captivating tune that keeps rolling around in my head. I guess there are songs for any situation in life including the homeless.

Last night my friend Homeless Eric and some of the volunteers were talking about some of the different terms that the homeless use like “Flying a Sign”. Everyone knows what that is if they have seen anyone holding a sign asking for food or work (it really means give me some money). Eric said he has tried it few times but without much success. It seems he is too friendly and happy. A colleague told him he should look sad and hungry. Eric can look hungry but not sad. One of the volunteers said they had read about an individual that did that for a living. He put on some dirty clothes and drove his fancy car to crowded intersection and collected more money than he could make working. Of course, there are always draw backs on a good thing; it’s against the law. Panhandling can get you a fine of $250 and possibly jail if you have had a bad day and had not collected enough to pay the man. But as one volunteer said, “you do what you got to do” to survive.

Our numbers were down last night. We served 55 meals with the assistance of 12 volunteers. We had two first time volunteers who attend Heritage Bible Church and Brittney who is a returning volunteer after some time off for school. All of them have a real heart to see the homeless and volunteers transformed by the power of the God. We have fun every Tuesday night but no one losses sight of why we are there. It is for the Gospel.
~Marc

Donations Needed for Families

2010-05-05T09:29:00.000-04:00

Thank you to everyone who recently donated to the woman in need. She is still in need of a dresser and a twin bed.
Also, we have two other families in need that we have been trying to reach out to through Food for Life. One is a couple who have had a difficult path but are trying to live for God now, as far as we can tell thus far. They just had a baby and have just moved into a new house and have very little. They have no beds, but they do have a crib. They need baby boy items and other various furniture.
There is also another lady that is a single mom who has been living with her sister and just got accepted for section 8 housing. She has absolutely nothing for her house. No furniture at all and no kitchen utensils, plates, shower curtains or rugs, etc.
We would love it if you all could look through any items you are not using and would be willing to donate and help us give to these people. It is a big help if you can also drop it off at the necessary locations or at least at Streetside. Paul and I have had our plates rather full with getting the items to the people; however if you cannot do that, we will make a way to pick it up.
Could you please pass it on to your churches as well!

Obviously please also pray for these people to have spiritual strength and the Holy Spirit power to do what is right.

Thank you all for your generosity.
Charity and Paul

Guest Blogger

2010-04-30T16:22:00.008-04:00

This week Homeless Eric has agreed to be our guest blogger. He has been a part of this ministry from the very beginning and we all enjoy seeing him every week. I thought it would be interesting to get his view what is important to him. Thanks Eric for your willingness to share your thoughts.
~Marc

How easy it is for us to live just for me and mine and forget that there are others in need around us; even in the same city. Luke 6:38 says give and it shall be given. This is one of my favorite verses because this is the example Jesus gave everyone that would follow and believe in Him later. He gave His life for everyone that whosoever would trust in Him shall be saved. Apostle John said you'll know them by their love, if you have love for each other. The first and greatest commandment is to love the Lord our God with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength. And the second is to love your neighbor.

If you want to survive in this world trust in yourself and those who you have "connections" with. But if you really want to live in the destiny and abundant purposes and plans He already had for you before the foundations of the earth then seek His kingdom. Go and read Matthew 6:33 and follow it out everyday.

Thank you all for your time and selfless service on Tuesday including everyone that is a part of Food For Life!! Amen! Amen!

Seeking Him and His righteousness,
Eric

Serving

2010-04-21T07:04:00.003-04:00

Rain, rain, and rain last night while unloading the food from the van. Most of the homeless are thankful for a dry place to settle in on a night like this. They spread out among the tables and watch us volunteers scurry around getting ready for the night. In and out of the room looking for stuff is the first order of business. Are the doors unlocked to supplies and ice machine? Do we have plates, forks coffee, tea, and do we have enough food even though we don’t know how many will show up. After sizing up the situation usually Bonnie will drive to the store for the needed supplies.

As the new volunteers show up we get a lot of questions like “what do I do”. Fortunately, we have a core group of volunteers that help every week and they know what to do. Basically it is shopping, chopping, washing, and mopping in addition to serving. Another group of volunteers minister to the homeless. They serve by spending time talking to them on an individual basis. Everyone has a story and a problem and some just need council, encouragement, and prayer.

After Paul shared the message, there were about 55 individuals lined up for the meal but by the night was over, we served 98 meals. Many go back for seconds and some get a plate to go. We served chicken and rice, beef and noodles, macaroni and cheese, bananas, topped off with chocolate peanut butter squares. Of course we had sweet tea to drink. Then most of the homeless are out the door for a smoke and then they head for their “cat hole” for the night.
~Marc

So Many Needs

2010-04-14T06:53:00.006-04:00

I don’t know how the body can take so much abuse. One lady with her significant other showed up last night. They have been living in the woods for as long as we have been ministering downtown. She smokes and has bone cancer. Both are in and out of the hospital because they drink way too much, more than a normal body can stand. They wanted a change of clothes. But what they both need is a heart change because eternity seems real close.

There were so many other needs. Many needed gas, money for their utilities, medication, socks, shoes, rides to the bus station, and rides to where they are staying. Of course, there are many who ask for money although we very seldom give cash. Our ministry is limited in time and money but we try to meet as many needs as possible but sometimes we just tell them we can’t do anything tonight. That does not make them very happy because that person thinks his need is more important than anyone else.

One need we do provide for everyone is a hot meal. Tonight we served 89 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. We were fortunate because we just had enough food for everyone. We never want anyone to be turned away hungry.
~Marc

Homeless Family Life

2010-04-07T07:09:00.005-04:00

Last night I had two separate homeless individuals describe their home life growing up and how it affected them. One believed that it is the reason he is homeless and leaving in an abandoned building with no education and no job. He believes that if he had had better parents things would have turned out better for him. He explained that in any family situation a child needs love and understanding. He did receive the love but he never received understanding. His father was not educated enough to take the time to give him an understanding or teaching him how to buy his first car, balance a checkbook, explain sex, or giving him proper direction. He said that his father would not even walk off the field with him, like the other Dads, after a football game. And his mother would’t even go to see him play. So to him understanding is the act of passing knowledge and spending quality time with your child. This he did not receive. Now he spends his time reading and writing about theology and talking with anyone who will listen to him about his latest revelation from God. He seems very bitter about his situation.

The other individual told me about listening to a talk show about the book of Revelation and he heard his real father call in with a question. He said he knew his voice immediately before he identified himself. He really did not know him growing up because he was not claimed as his child for many years. It seems that his mother had got involved with him even though she was already married and tried to pass him off as the child of her current husband. Things came out when his real father’s sisters convinced him to acknowledge own son. But he never spent any time with him until he was around 14 years old. I would say that his family was more dysfunctional than the other one but this individual did not think it caused him to be homeless. I am sure your family situation has a lot to do with how you turn out but many rise above difficult situations and others seem never get over how they were treated as a young child. So is it heredity or environment or a combination of the two that shapes our lives? I am sure both play a part.
~Marc

Count Them

2010-03-31T07:14:00.003-04:00

Last night we were blessed to have East North Street Baptist Church members volunteering downtown. They worked very diligently serving food and cleaning up. Many spent time with the homeless witnessing. Some of the homeless responded that they were Christians and of course everyone in Greenville are Christians. Others were more honest and wanted more explanation of Christianity such the doctrine of the Trinity which is conversation that requires some preparation. It is surprising that many of the homeless read the Bible and know it better than Christians but they just have not accepted Christ as their personal Savior.

We had 4 individuals visiting last night but they were not volunteers. They actually worked for the Census Bureau and they were there to count the homeless. Each had a clip board and they were counting while everyone was eating. Not sure why it took 4 people to count and I am not sure who they were counting. Probably half of the people that come downtown are not homeless. They are poor and live in homes but they come to get a good meal. They would be counted at their home. So are we double counting?
~Marc

A Family

2010-03-24T07:32:00.003-04:00

He used to come on a regular basis but lately it is only been now and then. I always recognize him from a distance by his infectious smile, even though, he is constantly searching the room like he is looking for someone. I guess on the street there are certain individuals that you want to avoid and others you want to find, especially if they have done you wrong. But I like to see him because he makes me smile and feel like neither of us have any problems.

He is white and his lady friend is black and they live in a tent. In the South at one time this kind of relationship would have been impossible even on the street. Fortunately now, those days have passed and most could care less. He once told me that he had given up on his relatives many years ago and the only one that might even talk to him was a sister. Once I tried to encourage him to contact her but he sighed and said it was too late. Even when his lady friend left him a few years ago, he would not consider contacting anyone. He has a family now and a place to live and just can not revisit the past.

We see many every week that have experienced pain and seek a new life on the street. In this economy there are those loosing their jobs and homes and could very well end up on the street. All of us are vulnerable and should be thankful to give a helping hand because one day we may need one too.

There was a large crowd tonight. When everyone lined up to eat, I counted 85 people but by the end of the night we had served over 100 hot meals. Thanks to all the volunteers who find joy in serving the homeless each week.
~Marc

Good Night?

2010-03-17T06:48:00.003-04:00

Nothing unusual happened last night, which is good, everyone was orderly and if fact seemed to appreciate the food and the cold tea. The numbers started out real slow but by the time we served the meal there were over 85 people. If you count the volunteers eating and the plates to go, we served 110 meals.

My job last night was to keep the hall clear between the room where Paul was preaching and the kitchen. Many times individuals congregate in the hall and end up making so much noise that it competes with the preaching. So a little policing was in order. During this time I could hear Paul preaching inside and the volunteers in the kitchen singing hymns while they work. Everyone was having church.

One homeless individual was in rare form this week. He would be a nice guy if he would lose the booze. He spent his time trying volunteer in the kitchen and if you tried to talk to him he ended up crying. It seems that he just has to keep moving so he can forget his situation. At 50 years old, he probably realized a long time ago that his situation seems to be hopeless living under a bridge. Paul spent a lot of time with him but he doesn’t listen well. He just wants to keep moving.

Clean up went well because we had a lot of help. Many of the volunteers were regulars so they knew what to do. Usually there are a lot of questions but not tonight. There were a few people from GE and a good showing from The Evangelical Institute. We are grateful for all of volunteers who allow Paul to minister to the homeless each week.
~Marc

Shampoo and Locked Doors

2010-03-10T06:08:00.001-05:00

This week a group of 9th graders from North Hills Community Church came down to volunteer. They did all the normal things that first time volunteers do like take pictures, work in the kitchen, serve food, and give out shampoo and conditioner. Well… most don’t give away shampoo and conditioner but everyone appreciated the gift. I wondered if any of the homeless would go in the bathroom and try some out. Tonight with their assistance, we served 70 meals.

What would be a minor for us can be a major for a homeless person. Case in point is a locked door, especially if behind that locked door is a sleeping bag owned by a homeless person. Many times the homeless will hide their valuables when they come in to eat so their stuff doesn’t get stolen. Tonight, this individual decided to use the room where the ice machine is located. Unfortunately, one of the volunteers decided to shut that door during the service not realizing that it would lock. The end result was a very upset homeless person. So what do you do? Naturally, I asked another homeless if he could “jimmy the lock” and within few seconds we were in the room. You do what you gotta do.

It is always great to see someone decide to leave the street. Tonight we helped Eric by purchasing a bus ticket to Ohio to live with relatives. Many homeless don’t have any family that is willing to help them for various reasons so the only assistance can be some type of program that may help temporarily but is never permanent. The real ticket to getting off the street permanently will depend on family who cares enough to give them another chance. Eric had an Uncle and an Aunt who loved him enough to give him that chance.
~Marc

Snow Day

2010-03-04T06:55:00.003-05:00

Last Tuesday was a snow day. We were advised that the Salvation Army was opening their doors to all the homeless in the area to sleep over. Since they were also providing a meal, we decided to cancel Tuesday night at Triune Mercy Center. Hope everyone was safe and warm Tuesday night and we see everyone next week.
~Marc

15 Minutes of Fame

2010-02-27T14:27:00.004-05:00

Some say that every one will experience at least 15 minutes of fame in their life. Most seem to be always seeking or expecting fame because they think they deserve it, and when and if they receive it, they always think that it is well deserved. But most who seek it or think they deserve it will only experience a manufactured fame that most would not confirm. That’s why I think it is interesting when some one, like a homeless person, receives that fame, even for 15 minutes, and is shocked to receive that kind of recognition. Maybe that is the only way to receive fame is by not seeking or expecting it. Certainly most would not think that real fame would be experienced by a homeless person who has an addiction to alcohol and has spent his whole life fighting the urge to drown his sorrows in a bottle, but it can happen.

Homeless Danny called me the other day from Charlotte. He had just once again completed detox and was in a half way house. He said that he was calling to tell me about something that happened to him that he never expected. He is attending a church that sponsored a 5 mile walk for the homeless. The walkers were encouraged to solicit sponsors that would contribute to the homeless for every mile they walked. The top money raisers would be recognized at a banquet for their efforts. Danny told me that walking 5 miles is nothing for a homeless person because that is what they do all day. So he decided to enter and seek donations from members of his church. It turns out that Danny and another student received the highest donations. When he was told that he would need to give a speech when he received his award at the banquet, he was petrified. But then he decided tell everyone about Jesus since He was homeless too. He told them how God was working in his life and what it meant to be homeless all his life. Excitedly, he told me that when he finished reading his speech and looked up, everyone was standing on their feet giving him a “standing ovation”. He said he could not believe it. So Danny got his 15 minutes of fame unexpectedly. I told him I was so excited for his accomplishment. After I hung up the telephone I prayed that God would use this to show him that he is important and not just another alcoholic who would continue to fight his addiction for the rest of his life. Will you join me in this prayer?
~Marc

Helping not Hurting

2010-02-16T10:45:00.003-05:00

Hello. It has been a while since I have written, a long while. I missed Food for Life many times after the birth of our daughter, and over the past couple of months I have really been integrating it back into my life now that our little girl is not so little any more and my parents are so generously willing to watch her for me. My husband and I have been reading a book that we borrowed from my dad called, "When Helping Hurts, Alleviating Poverty without Hurting the Poor and Ourselves." We both have been struck by a few key concepts during the reading that we have done thus far.

One concept that I am struck with is the fact that it is so easy for us as ministers of the gospel and as volunteers to separate ourselves from the people that we claim to be serving. We say that we are doing these acts of service because we care and we want to help, yet so many times as Christians we mentally separate ourselves from the very people we want to help, putting us in two different categories, this is "us" and "they" are over there. The question is, can we really effectively help them with that mentality without hurting them? Will we ever be able to determine what their real needs are and what the root cause of their homelessness is if we won't befriend them, and I mean truly befriend them? Paul and I feel convicted that the most important thing that we can do for them is not serve them a meal and give them a blanket. It is to share the gospel through friendship. We have to ask ourselves, "Are we truly their friend?" Because friends spend time together, sharing their lives with each other as equals. Obviously, any time we reach out in friendship to someone who struggles with addictions and possibly involves themselves in criminal behavior, caution is in order, but just because we need to proceed with caution, does not mean that we do not proceed at all. It is striking to me how many people will volunteer in the kitchen and in the serving line, but they will not even speak to the homeless people, let alone pull up chair and share an extensive conversation. That is frightening to some. It is difficult sometimes to realize that the homeless are people just like us. They have a past with hurts, they have feelings, they have struggles, and they need Jesus. Sure, they have made some bad decisions, but haven't we all? It is so easy to think, "Ya, but my bad decisions are not as bad as theirs, and why haven't they learned from their mistakes yet." However, life is a journey for us all. We all make bad decisions, and we all repeat the same mistakes over and over again and feel stupid for doing it. The difference is, most of us can hide our mistakes so that the whole world doesn't know what they are. We can't help them until we see ourselves when we look at them.

Over the next few months as Paul and I read this book, pray over the concepts, and share these concepts with the volunteers, we will be writing about the ways that we have found to integrate the concepts and what we are learning about ourselves as well as the people that God has placed in our lives.

~Charity

Give and Take

2010-02-16T06:24:00.001-05:00

We had a youth group from North Hills Community Church volunteer last Tuesday night. They were volunteering their time as a ministry project. Many of them already come downtown each week. They assisted others provide 75 hot meals for those in need. We are grateful for those young and old that has a heart to help the less fortunate.

In many ways the homeless are no different than others in society. There are those who are truly in need and verbally thank everyone for any assistance. Others, though, expect to receive what ever they want. They are takers. For instance, I noticed one individual who got some coffee and then took all the packets of sweet and low that was available for everyone. Others were thankful for the coffee on a cold night but there was no sweet and low.

Many had needs such as blankets, coats and especially socks. A pair of dry socks is important on the street. Fortunately, one of the volunteers brought in a good supply of all that was requested. After one individual received a pair of wool socks that he requested, he then wanted some boots size 11 ½. I thought, does he think this is Shoe Carnival. He had on a real nice pair of shoes. We try to meet every need we can regardless of their response. Obliviously, there are times when many take advantage of our generosity. But they are no different from others in society, they have need beyond the physical and that is a relationship with their Creator.
~Marc

The Real Problem

2010-02-06T11:18:00.002-05:00

Suresh, from the Evangelical Institute of Greenville, preached for Paul last Tuesday night. Every week Paul reminds everyone that we are downtown for the Gospel. With that in mind, Suresh preached on the meaning of the Gospel.

He asked for a show of hands for those who had problems. Everyone responded. Like everyone, the homeless experience problems such as loneliness, addictions, need for shelter, and need for employment to name a few problems. But these problems are a symptom of a major problem in everyone’s life. The real problem is sin. Sin separates us from God and the only remedy is that it must be dealt with. We can not deal with it by our good works which we think will cover our sin and God will then accept us. There has to be a sacrifice or a shedding of blood to properly cover our sin and make us acceptable to God. Suresh read from Isaiah 59 and Roman 3 which describes sin and it's remedy. There has to be a Redeemer who is Jesus Christ. Suresh invited all to accept Jesus as their Savior and a number of individuals responded. Praise God.

While everyone was eating, Suresh entertained everyone by playing his Sitar. Everyone was delighted with the unusual sound.
~Marc

We Need a Singer

2010-01-27T06:28:00.002-05:00

The homeless get restless when they line up to get their food and it is not ready. So to take their minds off their stomachs, we ask someone to sing, and of course, they better be good. Tonight that is exactly what happened and the unplanned singer was great. Many times we have to improvise to get the job done.

Tonight, we served 65 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers.
~Marc

Our Volunteers

2010-01-20T06:00:00.004-05:00

The volunteers are amazing... We seem to develop a comarade that none of us would have outside of the ministry. One volunteer told me last night that it is so cool to serve along side people from different backgrounds who just love hanging out with the homeless. He added that others don’t know what they are missing. From our desire to serve, we develop lasting friendships. Gordon, who has been coming about 3 months, filled in for Paul and provided everyone a powerful message. Another slipped me a very generous check for the ministry which we always need. That family supports us with their time and money. What a blessing.

It is always good to see volunteers bring new volunteers with them. Last night one lady brought a couple who jumped right in cutting and chopping in the kitchen and later working in the “dish pit” A job that not everyone wants to tackle.

I can not leave out the homeless volunteers. “Frenchie” always loves to serve and then there was “Frog” who couldn’t wait to start cleaning up and carrying out the trash. He has not been well physically in the past, but tonight he was much better and had to strength to help out. Everyone volunteer is appreciated.
~Marc

Hard Night

2010-01-13T07:10:00.002-05:00

It is easy to become complacent downtown not being aware that there can be some dangers with the people we serve. Because of this, Paul and Charity started the evening with a meeting with the volunteers in the kitchen. They reminded everyone to be cautious and stay in pairs, ladies should not walk out to their cars alone, and ladies should not become too involved with the opposite sex and be especially cautious with their children. Even though everyone is, for the most part, very friendly and appreciative, there are many who have sexual criminal backgrounds.

Later during Paul’s teaching we had an example of this type of behavior. One individual kept talking loudly with his neighbor and becoming unruly while Paul was teaching. Paul asked him to please be respectful and not talk while he was teaching. But he continued and finally Paul had to get some assistance to eject him from the premises. Later he came back and said he was either staying or we would have to call the police. So unfortunately, we followed his advice.

Regardless of the difficulties, many volunteers spent quality time with the homeless. We saw a lot of new faces which leads me to believe that things are getting worse financially for many folks. We were pleased to serve 85 meals with the assistance of 22 volunteers last Tuesday night.
~Marc

Many Needs

2010-01-06T05:56:00.001-05:00

When the weather gets really cold, like it was last Tuesday night, I know there will be a lot of needs. One lady gave Paul an electric bill for over $600.00. That pretty overwhelming for a small minister likes ours but it is really overwhelming to her since she could be without heat soon. Another needed kerosene and someone else needed gas for their vehicle so they could travel to Columbia where they had a job. Most of these needs are taken care of in the last hour before leaving. It can get a little dicey when there are so many people trying to talk to one person. We can not meet every need but we try.

We served 45 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. The numbers are usually down when it is really cold. I expect that many find a warm place early and just stay put.
~Marc

Final Days of 2009

2009-12-31T07:33:00.005-05:00

In Proverbs 16:9 it says that “the heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps. As we approach a new year, Paul reminded everyone that we all can make plans but God is always involved. Sometimes difficulty can be God establishing our steps for his ultimate glory and our good. We can’t make plans for the New Year unless we acknowledge God and his control of our life.

This week we had many requests for coats and blankets. It can be difficult when there are requests by women. One lady was on crutches and she requested gloves and a pair of pants. Apparently she wears diapers and had an accident. Fortunately, we were able to meet all of her needs. After she ate we gave her a ride home where she lives by herself.

Another unusual situation had to be dealt with on Tuesday night. A man came in looking like a policeman. He a large badge around his neck, radio squawking on his hip, and a hat that said he was security. He told Paul that he worked for Triune but after a phone call we found out that he just likes impersonating a policeman. Paul told him he was welcome to stay but he needed to remove his garb because it was intimating to the homeless. He decided to leave.

Tonight, we prepared and served 55 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. For the year of 2009 we were pleased to serve 2,835 meals which required 1,758 volunteer hours. Thanks to everyone that was involved in Food for Life Ministries in 2009. May God establish our steps in 2010. Happy New Year.
~Marc

Christmas Gifts

2009-12-23T14:20:00.007-05:00

Last Tuesday was very special for all of us. It was a time when we celebrated God’s gift by giving His Son for our redemption. That is the greatest gift of all. To celebrate that gift, Food for Life provided a gift for each homeless individual that can make a big difference in their lives on the street. Each one received a new back pack loaded with goodies like coupons for food, a blanket, toiletries, Bible, and snacks. Because of the generous financial support from many individuals, we were able to distribute 82 back packs and a hot meal for each individual. We are grateful for 32 volunteers who helped us make this a very special night for everyone.

Christmas Is Coming!

2009-11-20T12:29:00.012-05:00

Hello, my name is Charity Blumer, and I am Paul's wife. It has been a long time since I have written for the blog. I am excited to write this entry in order to share what we will be doing this Christmas for the homeless people that we serve at Food for Life. We invite those interested in reaching out to those in need to partner with us in our effort to give much needed items as a special gift to those to whom we are reaching out this Christmas. Let me tell you what we will be doing and how you can help.

This Christmas we would like to give a backpack to every person in need at Food for Life. In the backpack will be a variety of needed items. The estimated cost of each backpack will be $30. The following is the list of items needed, separated into two categories.

First, we will be needing some used but clean items (used because they are things that homeless people often lose, so it is not necessary that they be new). The items are as follows: backpacks, blankets, towels, and wash clothes.

Second, we will be needing the following new items: pocket Bibles, toothbrushes, toothpaste, shampoo, combs, socks, knit hats, gloves, boxed nonperishable food items, a candy bar, and a $5 gift card to a restaurant (like McDonalds).

We need volunteers to either sponsor a backpack or donate the needed items to make this special gift possible for each person at Food for Life. Those interested in donating financially are welcome to send a check to Paul. As mentioned earlier, the estimated cost of each bag is $30, and we will be needing 75 bags. If donations would be of interest to anyone, we will be collecting 75 of each item mentioned above.

We will begin by asking that during the next two weeks, from now until December 4, used backpacks (clean with no tears) ,pocket Bibles (New Testaments are great too), towels, wash clothes, and blankets be donated. The donated items can be dropped off at Streetside Catering.
We will be collecting the rest of the items during the following weeks.

We are excited about reaching out to those with great spiritual, emotional, and physical needs this Christmas. We appreciate everyone who will be partnering with us at this special time of year!
~Charity

Guest Blogger

2009-11-04T16:01:00.002-05:00

Hey guys, my name is Brittany Dail. I’m a student at North Greenville University and Marc asked me to be do the blog this week for FFL. The funny thing is, it was this very blog, that I stumbled across on accident, which informed me about this ministry at Triune. Ever since then I’ve been trying to come every week that I can. It has been really cool to tell my church, Northpointe, about it as well. When Paul first e-mailed me about this ministry, one of the things he pointed out is that he wanted for the volunteers to break out beyond the kitchen. This was big challenge to me at first, but I am seeing more and more each week where he is coming from. The opportunity to provide a meal for someone is incredible, but the chance to share with them the Good news? I think that far out weighs any physical way of providing for someone’s needs.

It has been really cool to sit down and talk to the many people that come from week to week. God has really been breaking down walls in my life as I get to know and continue serving the people that come through. Also, by building relationships, I am able to see what some of the need is among these people in my own community and as God leads, find other possible ways to reach out. Since some of my church family at Northpointe has been coming to serve lately, I am even more excited! My heart is that we will continue to build relationships and be as intentional as possible with our conversations. I also pray that we would look for opportunities to love on those that don’t always receive much love, and share what Christ has done in our lives.
~Brittany

Cold and Wet

2009-10-30T09:56:00.006-04:00

Last Tuesday night was miserable. It was cold and raining “cats and dogs” which means the homeless and volunteers were all soaked after hauling the food from the parking lot to the kitchen. Although it was uncomfortable, the volunteers could not complain because they can go home later and take a hot shower and get into dry clothes. No such luck for the homeless. Fortunately, Truine Mercy Center has a clothes dryer and many homeless put on a change of clothes while their wet clothes were in the dryer. This place can be a real oasis for not only for food and shelter, but also where they can meet simple needs like drying their wet clothes.

On a night like this many needed coats and blankets. Volunteers from North Greenville University came through again by providing these items for the homeless. Also, students from the Evangelical Institute came in force to assist. Lincoln, who is one of the students, led the Bible study that night for Paul. With their assistance, we served 65 hot meals.
~Marc

Tuesday Ministry

2009-10-14T08:55:00.005-04:00

Homeless William always takes a snooze before dinner. During the night he sleeps on a side walk next to a building ( I have seen his spot) close to Truine and during the day he just walks around Greenville. He usually has a golf club or some type of walking stick which may be used for his protection. When we open the doors each Tuesday night, he heads for the most comfortable seat in the house. When Paul arrived, he commented that he hoped his message would wake him up. Unfortunately, he continued to sleep until the food was served. Last Tuesday, William and 68 other downtown friends received a hot meal with the assistance of 24 volunteers.

Tonight Paul continued to teach from the book of James. In chapter 3, he focused on the power of the tongue. He emphasized that the tongue may be used in a negative or positive way. Our tendency is to use the tongue in a sinful way to inflict pain on others. However, the tongue can be used in a positive manner to provide a word of encouragement that will help others in need. Humility is necessary to use it wisely.

Usually after the meal, we minister to many of the homeless that have specific needs. Paul and others spend their time talking and praying with them. This is certainly a positive use of our tongue emphasized in the message tonight. Also, this week we provided a good supply of winter clothes for distribution. Every year as winter approaches there is a definite need for warmer clothes and blankets. One individual just asked for a piece of cardboard to sleep on. The only thing I could find was cake boxes which seemed to make him happy. When we received those types of requests, it is very clear how difficult it is to live on the street. Many get tired of the street life and request bus transportation out of town. We were happy last Tuesday to provide one individual with transportation to Florida where there are friends to help him. We try to help if we determine there is a genuine desire to get off the street. Sometimes this requires traveling to another city.

~Marc

Mercy

2009-10-07T10:47:00.004-04:00

Last Tuesday I saw many of the homeless licking their lips after eating wedding cake and drinking punch left over from a wedding function. Oh sure, we had plenty of good food but dessert was the highlight. Actually they attended a wedding reception in an indirect way. For most, this will be about as close as they will ever get to attending a fine function where family and friends get together to celebrate. Their family, in most cases, never had many happy occasions to celebrate. But tonight, we were all enjoying each other and celebrating a bride and groom we did not know.

Dan Peterson filled in for Paul tonight. His theme was God's Mercy. Of course, God's mercy primarily is His Son who died for our sins. We all recognize that is the most important mercy extended by God to a lost world. But he reminded everyone that God's mercy extends to every day circumstances. The building we occupy each Tuesday is Triune "Mercy" Center. A person on the street may be given a couple of dollars that allows them to buy a hamburger at McDonalds and rest in a cool or warm environment. That is mercy. Someone may get a room for the night at the Salvation Army or the Mission instead of sleeping on the street. That is mercy. Some may receive clothes or a blanket from many of the organizations that minister to the homeless. That is mercy too. We all receive mercy when we have received food, shelter, or clothes. If a homeless get a day job with Labor Finders, that again is God's mercy. Dan read from many Psalms that speak to God's mercy extended during trials and tribulations. In addition, he reminded us that in Matthew 5:7 that Jesus said "Blessed are the merciful for they shall receive mercy". Even a homeless person can extend mercy by helping each other on the street and so doing they will receive mercy.

The numbers were up last Tuesday. We served 70 hot meals with the assistance of 24 volunteers.

~Marc

Homeless Ups and Downs

2009-09-30T08:24:00.004-04:00

There was a big crowd of homeless loitering outside Triune when we arrived. There is no way to predict how many people will show up each week. Some say at the end of the month there are more because their monthly disability checks will be long gone for food. Others make their predictions on the weather or time of the year. But I have found that over the last 6 years that the numbers are totally unpredictable. So prayer is our preparation each week.

The final count of meals served this week was 75 with the assistance of 14 volunteers. Fortunately, we had enough help in the kitchen which included our regulars, students from North Greenville University and the Evangelical Institute, and employees from General Electric.

Whenever you get this many people together there can be problems and tonight was no different. When we opened the door after arriving, the homeless always flood in through the door looking for immediate refreshment and comfort from the weather. But one gentleman was so weak he could not move. He said he was released from the hospital for cardiac arrest and had not eaten for two days. He just did not have the strength to move. Of course he had no insurance so he said the hospital released him quickly. However, we called EMS and he was headed back to the hospital. They might as well have kept him until he had fully recuperated. Another incident later in the evening resulted from one individual who was very angry and rude to the volunteers. This is very unusual but from experience we knew this individual was on his way to some type of confrontation. He refused to calm down so we had to call 911 for some assistance. We don't do this lightly but it can be necessary to maintain order.

Later in the evening I had an opportunity to talk with CJ. I had seen him before but never had an opportunity to talk with him. He is homeless but he has a different attitude than most. Many spent most of any conversation either complaining or asking for something. But CJ and I just had a good conversation outside leaning against the iron railing watching the cars go by. We laughed about different things and just talked about life in general as if we were old friends. Ultimately, I shared God's love for CJ and how he could have a personal relationship with Him. I did this not out of obligation but as a friend concerned about another friend. I thought that it seemed the natural thing to do when you care about someone.
~Marc

How to Avoid the Flu

2009-09-23T09:16:00.004-04:00

Last night I received a real education on how to avoid the flu on the street. I always thought that tapping your knuckles was just a cool way of greeting each other, but a homeless told me last night that many do this to prevent getting the flu. It can be very difficult to keep clean on the street so many do what they can to prevent spreading any type of viruses among themselves. We all know that the worst thing you can do is shake hands with someone and then rubbing your eyes or eating with your fingers. So shaking hands is out and tapping your knocks is in. At least this is one way to prevent spreading germs and the potential of getting the flu. Now if I could just convince my pastor at church to request everyone use this method when greeting each other in church. We could not only prevent the spread of viruses but also look pretty cool.

Paul continued to teach in the book of James on faith without works. He has taught on this subject for the past three weeks because he feels that this is so important. Many say they are a Christian but they do not display any fruit. There is no evidence in their life to support their convictions. In James 2:22, it talks about how Abraham provided evidence for his faith by obeying God and offering up his son on the altar. His actions provided evidence of his faith in God. He was justified by what he did and not by faith alone.

We served 60 meals last Tuesday with the assistance of 12 volunteers. We were a little short in the kitchen but they pulled it together. We appreciate all who come to help each Tuesday night and are really blessed by them in so many ways.
~Marc

Homeless Have Needs Too

2009-09-16T10:30:00.004-04:00

Faith without works is dead. What kind of works does faith produce? It produces works from a heart of gratitude. Grateful that God has changed a life and produces a desire to share the love of God and the Gospel to all. It is, as Paul taught last Tuesday night, a prayer every morning to ask God to allow us an opportunity that day to share God's love and Good News . The book of James is very convicting to all of us.

Last Tuesday, there were many spiritual and physical needs. One homeless individual had luggage that was falling apart. He asks for some tape to repair it. Doug, a volunteer, found some tape in the kitchen and made the repair for him. This individual especially likes this type of pack or luggage to carry his clothes and possessions because it has rollers. It is much easier to transport on the street. I see more and more homeless using these types of bags instead of the typical backpack. Another had a physical problem and was in lots of pain. Paul took him to get some medicine but he declined when he realized that it would cost $22.00. He said he was not worth that much. He returned to the bridge after accepting a bottle of water. Very sad. Homeless Paul came in at the end of the night. I have seen him off and on for about 6 years. This night he was a little tipsy but to my surprise he started speaking in French. One of the volunteers near by started responding to him in French. I thought that was amazing that someone would be standing right next to him who could respond in the same language. During the clean up, I noticed a number of homeless individuals working diligently to clean up. Homeless Eric informed me that they were homeless volunteers that normally worked during the day at the church. It seems that they had some prestige by being designated a volunteer. We were grateful for their help and they did a great job. Many others needed spiritual counseling. Every week we have volunteers that come specifically to pray and counsel the homeless. Many times the pray with two or three individuals at a time. This is the heart of Food for Life.

We served 65 hot meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. Two of the volunteers surprised everyone by providing a banana pudding and ice cream for everyone. They decided to volunteer and did not come with empty hands. Everyone was grateful.

Love is the Answer

2009-09-09T08:30:00.007-04:00

Our numbers were off a little last night. We served 55 plates of spaghetti primavera with cheese bread, bananas, and topped that off with chocolate cake with chocolate sauce. It looked very yummy. It is amazing to see different volunteers in the kitchen each week who can throw it together and the food is not only good but looks good. All of our volunteers are appreciated from the kitchen to the servers and to the many who minister and encourage the homeless. Thanks.

This week, Paul continued to preach on faith without works. The previous Tuesday he quoted many scriptures that clearly state that we are justified by faith along, apart from works. However, as James points out, if we truly have faith then we will show it by loving others whether they love us or not. Paul referred to I John 3:17 ( which is our ministry verse ) that states "whoever has the world's goods, and sees his brother in need, and shuts up his heart from him, how does the love of God abide in him". So if we truly have faith, we will have works of love. There will be an outward expression of our inward change.

Our friend, homeless Eric, did get another bike. However, it was a boy's bike which made it difficult for him to ride because he so tall. So we gave him and his bike a ride after Food for Life.

We always have very interesting conversations with him although he does most of the talking, but we love him.
~Marc

What is the Command? Love or Law?

2009-09-07T07:35:00.004-04:00

James 2: 8-14 The Royal Law

Let’s face it; we love ourselves more than anything. We are always drawn towards anything that will build us up and make us look better than others. People truly care about them selves more than anyone. This is contrary to: THE ROYAL LAW. Jesus said this is the second greatest law, the first being to “Love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind. ( Matt 22:39 )
Jesus instructed us in Matthew 19: 19 to “love your neighbor as yourself”
For the last two weeks we have been looking at the issue of showing partiality. It is incredible that this type of behavior has slipped in unnoticed by the Church. The enemy will do anything he can to distract us from what is truly important. The call of God is very different than putting yourself first, and if we plan to fulfill the call of God we must think of others before ourselves.

James 2:8-14
8 If you really fulfill the royal law according to the Scripture, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself,” you do well; 9 but if you show partiality, you commit sin, and are convicted by the law as transgressors. 10 For whoever shall keep the whole law, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all. 11 For He who said, “Do not commit adultery,” also said, “Do not murder, ”Now if you do not commit adultery, but you do murder, you have become a transgressor of the law. 12 So speak and so do as those who will be judged by the law of liberty. 13 For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.
Obeying the Law was at the top of the Jewish community. People would go to every extent to try and be a doer of the law, because they thought their relationship with God depended on it. Our culture is a little different. We don’t necessarily think that doing is important at all, unless the doing is doing for ourselves. When we obey the Royal law, God says we DO WELL.

- Anytime we put others first we are fulfilling God’s greatest commandment

- Anytime we show partiality we commit sin

God shows us that if we strive to perform any other task we will always fail because the law has many parts.

10 For whoever shall keep the whole law, and yet stumble in one point, he is guilty of all.

- The law brings judgment because we are guilty ( Gal 3:10 )

12 So speak and so do as those who will be judged by the law of liberty.

God has ensured us that through the Gospel we are given freedom. We are now, because of Christ work on the cross, given the right to live and speak freedom. It is for freedom that we have been set free. Before Jesus came to save mankind there was only the expectation of judgment because everyone knew that living out Gods law was impossible.

Now, God has given us the Royal law and said that if we really want to fulfill the Royal law “You shall love your neighbor as yourself”, we understand how this applies in our daily lives and how we treat others, but what about judgment?

- We want mercy

- Others receive judgment

13 For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment.

So God shows us that with the law there is judgment, but with the Law of liberty of life there is freedom to live and love others. With this law comes Mercy! This is the Gospel!

Tuesday Conversations

2009-09-02T11:20:00.005-04:00

I really enjoy the variety of people I meet every Tuesday night. Some are volunteers who are alert to any opportunity to share the Gospel to hurting folks whether they are homeless or other volunteers. Their eyes light up when they are given the opportuntity to share their lives with others. Some of them are very talented like Sam who sang a gospel song acappella. He said he used to sing gospel music. I think he still does. What a blessing.

Another interesting conversation revolved around prophesy. This individual told me that he was one of the end time prophets predicted in the Bible. He based this revelation on the fact he had attended Briarwood Elementary School (briar of thorns on Jesus's head) and Hillcrest High School (Jesus was cruxified on a hill). He said this was all part of the puzzle for him and it just could not be a coincidence.

I always enjoy talking with Eric. He is so resourseful. He is homeless but he does not sleep on the street or at the mission. He always finds some place to spend the night . Last Tuesday he got a room for the night for two cigarettes. Not a bad deal considering a room runs about $45. But most of the time a night's stay is free because he such a likeable guy. He just had his latest bike stolen but I expect he will get another one before next Tuesday. Anyone with a bike for Eric. let us know. By the way he also gave his take on prophesy, he told us he was a post milleniallist.

Last Tuesday we served 65 hot meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers. We continue to see new faces every week.
~Marc

The joys of ministry

2009-08-07T09:50:00.008-04:00

Many times people have said to me, "Do you ever feel like people are taking advantage of you at Food for life"? I always answer "Yes", but I am taking advantage also. I love to take advantage for the sake of the Gospel. It is why I do what I do. Its why a Christian lives.

Every once in a while I get the opportunity to see God work in a very tangible way. A couple of months ago God introduced me to a couple at F.F.L.M. Chris and Beverly were living at the Mission in the family apartment. They met in a homeless shelter, fell in love, and soon after got married. This family has been through allot in their short time together, and are still experiencing hard times. One Tuesday night Chris was surrounded by a couple of guys that come to F.F.L.M. faithfully. They gathered around him and began to pray that God would provide him a job quickly. You see, Chris has two children. One of the children is an infant, and the other a toddler that lives with a family friend. So, he really needed a job, and he needed fast! Well, they began to pray believing that God would provide a job and he did! I walked up to Chris moments after that prayer and felt led to go ahead and give Chris a job even though I didn't really need anyone. The next week one of the guys that prayed with him told me about the prayer and how God had used me to answer that prayer. It was so cool to be a part of this. We just need to be available, and God will do the rest. So, Chris came to work at Streetside the next day. He is a hard worker and has a great attitude. Last week he got his drivers licence and is now being trained to deliver food. I am very proud of Chris. Yesterday an employee decided to lay out of work and not call to let me know were he was. Obviously, he lost his job. Bad for him, great for Chris! He will now be able to get more hours.

Chris and Beverly have also moved out of the Mission and are on the fast track to getting their own house. They have joined the G.A.H.I.N. program. http://www.gahin.org/ Through G.A.H.I.N they are receiving help with many other needs such as child daycare vouchers, food, and diapers. Last week a man that comes to F.F.L.M walked up to me and handed me a check for $650.00 to help Chris and Beverly with what ever they needed. Well, they had some dept that was associated with a title loan that had a high interest rate on their car. They owed $670.00, and this money was able to get them out from under that payment so they could make a fresh start. Oh, the joy of seeing God work! I am so grateful for this ministry, and I am also grateful for all of those that believe in the work that God is doing at F.F.L.M. We are the body of Christ! Being taken advantage of isn't so bad!

Thank you to the 18 volunteers that helped us prepare 82 plates of food this week. It takes everyone doing their part to make it work.

Paul

" Vain Religion"

2009-07-30T11:55:00.006-04:00

Whats up friends of FFLM? A big thanks to all the support we have been given lately by all our faithful partners. It is a great privilege to do ministry, and be involved first hand in God's plan. We have been walking through James and have come to the tongue. Looks like our tongue is connected to more than our mouth.

What does your religion look like to others? You know religion has a goal, it is the goal of our religion to change us, and bring us to God. If we are not constantly guarding our heart, we might reduce the power of the Gospel to a stage show. Its just not enough to be a "Good little Christian".

James 1:26-27 (New King James Version)
26 If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one’s religion is useless. 27 Pure and undefiled religion before God and the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their trouble, and to keep oneself unspotted from the world.

2 Timothy 3 tells us that in the last days people will become:
lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. The Gospel is the power of God, and should effect us when it comes in contact with our hearts. We cannot deny the power by becoming consumed with ourselves and therefore cheating ourselves and others of His transforming power. Outward works are only a fassad and only a form of godliness.

How many times have you heard a person justify their life style by saying: " Christians are no different than me" so why should I be a Christian?

Matthew 12:34-37 Jesus said:

34 Brood of vipers! How can you, being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. 35 A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. 36 But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. 37 For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”

We cannot see the heart, but James 1: 26 tells us that we can see the condition of our heart by looking at our tongue! If we think we are religious yet use no self control when we speak we are deceiving:

1.Our friends? 2. God? 3. ourselves?

If you chose number 3 you get the prize, and if you choose to speak evil to others and about others your religion is in Vain.

Check out vs. 27 for a true religion!

We had a big crowd this week. It was great! Also, the picture above is of homeless Eric. He has just returned to Greenville from visiting relatives in his home town. He has been a friend of Food for Life from the inception of our downtown ministry.
Paul

One More Layer of the Homeless

2009-07-22T12:55:00.008-04:00

It would probably shock you if you volunteered and recognized a homeless person. That has happened more than once. Some volunteers have recognized individuals that they had known when they were younger. One volunteer in particular recognized his best friend when he was in high school. Another, last Tuesday, recognized a previous supervisor. She reported to him at her job and now she served him as a homeless person. We all agree that in this tough economy many individuals and families are just one pay check away from homelessness, but it really becomes a reality when you see someone that you know. These individuals seem to have become another layer of homeless on the street.

Every Tuesday night, Paul will ask the audience why we come downtown. His answer is always the same, for the Gospel. So the most important time is the study of God’s Word. Currently Paul is walking through the book of James. Last Tuesday, he taught on James 1:20-25. These passages focus on not only being a hearer but also a doer of the Word. Many people who go to church and hear the Word may deceive themselves thinking they are a doer because they attend services. When you allow yourself to think along those lines, you are like a man who looks at his face in a mirror and then goes away forgetting what he looks like. In the same way, a man can read or hear the perfect law of liberty (Bible) and not recognize how it should change not only his thinking and but also his behavior. Paul gave a personal testimony how when he was first saved that he would read the Bible, then he would meditate on the passage, and then look for a way to carry it out as he came in contact with people during the day. So he starts by reading (a hearer) and then thinking about what he reads (meditation) and then finding a way to apply it in his life with someone (a doer).

We had a good crowd last Tuesday night. We served 72 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. A special thanks to Tim's daughter who provided baked bread and fresh vegetables for our meal. She did this for a Girl Scout project.
~Marc

Homeless Have Talent

2009-07-18T11:21:00.005-04:00

I am amazed that many of the homeless have talents. I don’t know why I feel this way since all of us have different gifts whether we are homeless or not. I know there can be different reasons why each of us don’t use our gifts for our benefit as well as others. One such person is Shawn (right in picture), can detail a car like I have never seen. He worked on this Corvette for over two hours and detailed it out for any car show. It was obvious he was not doing this totally for the money, but that he really took pride in his accomplishment. I would highly recommend him.

Then there is William; he makes walking sticks. Not just any old walking stick but he carves pictures and symbols in the wood. Any hiker would love to show off one of his creations. Every Tuesday he comes in with one that he is working on. I enjoy seeing the progress he is making and marvel at his skill.

Also, there is David. He does not create anything that I know of. He just reads a lot. I mean he reads walking down the street. Now to me, that is quite an accomplishment. On Tuesday nights I enjoy checking out his novels and sharing with him books that I read. But he is not only a reader but also a singer. One Tuesday night we finished singing some hymns and was just getting ready to pray for the food when all of sudden he started singing a hymn acapela. We were shocked that he was singing so well. It was a special night for all of us.

All of these individuals are homeless. Some live on the street or may live at the Salvation Army or the Mission. We realize each week that their position in life does not define their God given talents and gifts. They all want to express themselves and enjoy the fruit of their labor. Some times it can be difficult to do that on the street.
~Marc

Homeless Advice

2009-07-10T11:09:00.005-04:00

We usually always have volunteers that are more than happy to work in the kitchen. The only exception may be washing dishes. But last Tuesday, these ladies were exceptionally happy working in the dish pit. It takes everyone working together to get the job done. Every job is special. Last Tuesday we served 82 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers.

If you talk to enough homeless, you can get some unusual advice. For instance, one of our volunteers, Bo, was talking to Frenchie who gave him some love advice, he said “tell them they’re beautiful, but don’t stalk them”. I guess he had learned that from experience. Frenchie has been attending Food for Life off and on for about 6 years. He always comes in with small roses that he gives to the female volunteers.

Also, another homeless who sleeps in a tent had given us some advice on the dos and don’ts on a cruise. His advice was "not to hang over the rail of the ship late at night if you have had a few drinks". We told him that was good advice but we probably would not be having any night caps on our cruise.

Last week, homeless Eric showed up after being absent for over a year. We had heard that he had returned to his home town to live with his cousins. But the only explanation he gave us for his absence was that he had been on a sabbatical. I wondered, can a homeless person be on a sabbatical, regardless, we were glad to see his smiling face.
~Marc

Hope for the Hopeless

2009-07-01T10:10:00.004-04:00

Ministering to the homeless and poor can be rewarding and at the same time can be discouraging. It is rewarding when we see individuals get off the street and lead a productive life. Usually these kinds of folks are the ones we provide assistance on a weekly basis in the form of medication refills, gas for their car, phone cards, or a hot meal on Tuesday night. This takes care of some of their problems for that particular day. Other days they may rely on other ministries for their necessities. Many of these individuals are living in temporary shelters and some times are families with small children. They have hope.

Ministering can be discouraging when you see the over whelming abuse of alcohol. Last Tuesday we had a number of individuals who had been drinking and were either totally drunk, or in between drinks and just had the shakes. One individual told me that alcohol had stole his life. He said that alcohol is the first thing he thinks about when he wakes up on the street. It seems to be their medication for dealing with their situation and it just consumes them. Sure there are some who may use illegal drugs, but by far alcohol is the number one drug of choice for the homeless because it is cheap and legal. I always wonder what road these folks took to get where they are now. I am sure it was slowly one day at a time. Just having few drinks then over time finding out they could not do without a drink every day. Then from there to losing their jobs and then their families which mean they have no support. To climb out of that hole it must be done slowly through intensive therapy which many are not willing to do. Most just give up and accept their situation. We know that the Gospel can transform their lives through His Spirit. So that is our and their only hope. That is why we come down town every Tuesday night.

Tuesday night we served 95 hot meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. We had some first time volunteers from Springwell Church in Greenville. As always, we had many of our faithful volunteers show up and work in the kitchens and spend time with the homeless. It definitely is their Ministry too.
~Marc

The Have & Have Not's

2009-06-28T09:15:00.004-04:00

When we arrived last Tuesday there was a crowd of first time volunteers in the parking lot and an equal number of homeless at the side door waiting to get in out of the heat. I could not help to think that it appears that the volunteers are trying to keep their distance from the homeless. It is like the "the have" and "the have not's". I understand how they feel. When Paul started his ministry over 7 years ago, I felt very uncomfortable around the less fortunate. I didn't know if they would be violent or obnoxious, so I kept by distance. But over the years I have found that you are more likely to have a problem with some volunteers than the homeless. Most of them are grateful for what we provide and would not jeopardize that by acting up.

We did have a good group in the parking lot that eagerly attacked the responsibilities for preparing and serving the food. Without this group it would be impossible for other volunteers to devote their time ministering to the homeless. We had a first-time group from the Summitt Church in Greenville and a good representation from GE. As always, we can depend on a core group of faithful volunteers who come each week to specifically minister to the homeless. They spend the entire time talking, praying, and sharing the Gospel. They understand that this is our mission for coming to Triune Mercy Center each Tuesday night. This group was included in the 28 volunteers that ministered and served 110 folks last Tuesday. This is the largest crowd of homeless and volunteers we have had in a long time.
~Marc

Temptation Has a Name

2009-06-17T14:41:00.004-04:00

When we left the house it was raining cats and dogs. It was one of those summer thunder storms that most of the homeless hate because they can not get out of the rain. Who wants a homeless person coming into their retail establishment just to avoid rain? I prayed that it would stop until we got to Triune Mercy Center so I could get the door open for everyone.

It did stop raining and when we arrived most everyone was sitting on the brick ledge at the side of the building smoking or congregating around the door. I used the combination lock to open the door and you would not believe how fast some of these guys can move. It was like they were waiting all day for this to happen. As they poured into the cool auditorium, I noticed them taking chairs down off the tables and placing the plastic forks on the table for the meal. It seemed that they just wanted to do some thing to be productive by performing these small tasks. Most of these always try to assist us; the others usually don’t show up until the end of the preaching so they can get their meal. I quickly went into the kitchen and prepared a container of ice water to quench their thirst. Also, the tea would be prepared now, but would be served later with the meal.

I went to the back of the room to talk to some of the homeless before the preaching. One individual who spoke to me wanted some money. Most usually ask for $1.50 to $2.00 for bus fare. Some times I wonder if maybe it is for a can of beer. Many that have had the same request, I could smell beer on their breath. I always suspect some of their stories are not true, but I do feel sorry for them and give in some times. Tonight though, I told him I did not have any money. He suggested I ask around for him which I promptly declined. I was not in the mood for panhandling for someone else.

I talked to another couple of obvious friends. They told me they were Christians and had to stick together because there is so much temptation on the street. I thought to myself that there is too much temptation every where. They kept talking about the Pharaoh and how he keeps talking to them, but they have been ignoring him. One said to the other “do you remember when the Pharaoh showed up on the Haney Street”. The other responded, “yes, but I told him he was wasting his time”. It was obvious that the Pharaoh is the one they fight against every day. It seems to be helpful to identify this tempter with a personal name so they can tell him “to get lost”. I told them that I did not expect the Pharaoh to show up tonight and they both agreed. Paul continued preaching on the book of James which has a lot to say about temptation. If you are a Christian, temptation can make you stronger but if you are not, it will just “tick you off”.

We continue to have about the same number of folks each Tuesday. We served 67 meals with 12 volunteers. We finished about 8:30 pm and as I was leaving, I saw Paul following a couple with a baby to the gas station. They needed fuel for their car so he could continue looking for a job on Wednesday. You don’t have to be homeless to be in need. You can just be an innocent child with parents who have no means of support.
~Marc

Providing Shelter

2009-06-12T08:30:00.008-04:00

Last Tuesday night we served 65 hot meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. We had many of our regulars including another good turn out from General Electric.

Paul continued his study of James and later we provided assistance to some ladies that were on the street. We provided a room for one lady who was going Shepard's Gate the following day. Another volunteer on Wednesday, provided transportation for a husband and wife to United Ministries in Spartanburg where shelter was available.

We always are concerned for anyone on the street but especially for women. Unfortunately, there are not as many short-term shelters for them as there are for the men.

~Marc

Serving Volunteers

2009-06-05T10:01:00.008-04:00

Last Tuesday Jerry, who is one of our volunteers, preached for Paul. He and his wife were celebrating their anniversary that night but were happy to minister to our friends downtown on this special occasion. He continued the study of James and accurately presented the Gospel for all in attendance. “Thanks Jerry” for filling in for Paul and for your faithfulness each Tuesday night. We are grateful for volunteers who not only serve but also minister to the needy each Tuesday night.

We continue to have many different folks who come each Tuesday night to serve. This Tuesday we had the Greenville Derby Dames show up to volunteer. They are a women’s Roller Derby team who raise money for charities. These gals had no trouble mingling with the homeless who at time can be rough around the edges. If you are interested in seeing them in action check out the video below.

Our numbers were down some this Tuesday. We served 77 meals with the assistance of 24 volunteers. One of our volunteers provided the dessert which was muffins and water melon. Hmmm Good.
~Marc

Our Volunteers

2009-05-27T11:04:00.005-04:00

Last Tuesday Paul began by praying with the volunteers in the kitchen. Paul reminded them that our purpose is not to just feed people but to proclaim the Gospel. Every thing we do should be done with an attitude of prayer to reach the lost and this should start in the kitchen. We are all ministers of the Gospel.

Many of our volunteers come every week and not only volunteer their time but also contribute financially to the ministry. They put not only their heart and soul into reaching the homeless but also their finances. We are grateful for their donations which provide for the needs each Tuesday night. For instance, this Tuesday there was a need for medication. Bonnie went to the drug store during the preaching to purchase cream and pain medication for a burn. Also, a couple with a baby needed gas for their car. They are currently living at Miracle Hill and needed gas to get to work. Another individual needed funds to get in a program at the Donaldson Center that provides shelter and transportation to work. In addition, each week we have to purchase food to serve each Tuesday night. It is amazing that we seem to have just enough funds each week to meet the current needs. It would not be possible without the generous support from our volunteers and regular monthly supporters.

There was a big crowd this week. We served 95 hot meals including drink and dessert with the assistance of 24 volunteers. Many of the volunteers come from various churches and as always we had a good representation from General Electric.

~Marc

Wayne's Story

2009-05-20T08:50:00.004-04:00

Wayne's story is not unlike many who live in Greenville. He lived in a Christian home until he was a teenager but then there was a turn for the worse. His parents died and he just seemed to drift toward a life that eventually ended him in jail. After he did his time, he gave in to the lure of crack cocaine. By this time he was married and had a good job but lived in a crack house. He had everything that most most would desire; money in the bank, a house and cars. But one thing he did not have was peace. He started hearing voices that told him to kill himself. He tried to ignore them but the voices seemed to control his thoughts. Then he realized that he could get help because his company provided good health insurance. Naturally the psychiatrist prescribed medication for his problem. But the medication proved to be more of a problem than his mental issues. The side effects of the medicine made him sick every time he ate and he seemed to no longer care about his family. His life continued down that road of destruction when his wife left him and he became homeless. He was now at the bottom. He continued to try to turn life around without much success. During this time he never forgot the faith of his parents. He thought about trying to turn to that faith but he never could leave his life of sin. But one night he had a dream. In that dream, God told him that He would heal his mind. He said it was so real that it made a major impact on his thoughts. He knew that his life would change and it did. He eventually trusted in Christ for his relationship with God. He started reading the Bible and attending church. He life totally changed. He was still homeless but he had that peace that he never experienced during his life. Now he is trusting totally in God's provision for his life whether he remains homeless or has an opportunity to one day regain his job and home. Wayne is a grateful person.

Wayne and others enjoyed hamburgers, french fries, and cold slaw last Tuesday night. We served 65 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers. We continued have requests for blankets and clothes because of the cool nights. We would appreciate anyone who could donate blankets for our friends down town.

The Bull Rider

2009-05-15T19:01:00.004-04:00

Last Tuesday was the first night for our time change. Paul had decided to start an hour earlier by preaching at 6:00pm and serving the meal at 7:00pm. Judging from the crowd it looked like many were not aware of the time change, although, we did have a respectable crowd. We were privileged to serve 55 meals with the assistance of 12 volunteers.

Every week we are fortunate to see old and new faces. I am always surprised to see someone who used to attend our meetings at the Carpenter's Cellar on Tuesday nights. One was named Paris. He said he was named after the city in France. Another was from South Africa who I had to admit that I had forgotten his name. One of the new faces that came in had the biggest belt buckle I had ever seen. He told me that he had won it bull riding. He did not look like a bull rider but who knows. One individual went into the men's bathroom and took off his clothes and started washing them in the sink. We had to remind him that this was not the appropriate place for doing this. At least he was not using the sink in the kitchen.

This Tuesday, we were fortunate to have blankets because many were still in need because of the cool nights. I guess it is difficult to keep up with your bedding when you don't know when or where you will sleep each night. As usual, Paul tried to helped the ones most in need. He provided a room for the night for one individual and gave another a ride home. We try to meet as many needs as we can each Tuesday night. We are very grateful for those who provide support and prayers for Food for Life Ministries.
~Marc

The Mean Streets

2009-04-22T09:12:00.002-04:00

Life on the street can be dangerous, especially if you are sound asleep in your “cat hole” and someone attacks you. That is what happened to Chris. He said that someone who had just been released from jail woke him up in the middle of the night and told him to get out. Now Chris did not take this lying down but there were consequences. The man who roused him from a deep sleep was about 250 pounds and Chris is tall with about half the weight. But Chris knows how to take care of himself. A fight was necessary to retain his place to sleep that night. Last Tuesday, Chris asked us for some Advil for the pain and antibiotic medication cream for his back. He was banged up pretty bad and told us he is tired. He is tired of living this kind of life. He comes downtown to Food for Life for inspiration and prayer. Also, he is fighting an addiction that controls his life. But this is exactly the people we are looking for. These are the down and out and those individuals who are tired and searching for a way out. Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6). We provide the answer each week for those who are hurting and desperately need a change in their life.

This week we served 75 meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. As is the past, the GE workers were serving in the kitchen and passing our clothes that they had accumulated at work. Also, there are many volunteers like Dan whose purpose is to reach people on an individual level. They are Paul’s support so that we can reach as many people as possible. We are especially grateful for their ministry support.
~Marc

Late-Comer

2009-04-14T23:07:00.004-04:00

Every week walking into FFL proves to be a new experience. Today I was running late, so I came after things had picked up momentum. I have a new responsibility every night. Tonight i walked and was promptly handed gloves and around 15 bags of bananas to unbag. As i donned the metaphorical 'what can i tackle next' apron, i was presented with chopping the ham to put in grits. I progressed through these tasks and the worship started in the next room. As Atsen played through the songs, we shredded and demolished our way through the ham with the extremely dull chef knives procured from the left-hand drawer of the stainless steel island.

After the message, we brought the food out to the serving line. The food tonight was superb: grits 'n ham, chicken celery rice, brownie bites, cheese bread, peach cobbler, and of course the fruit of the week: bananas. My favorite job at FFL is serving food; that way i get to at least communitcate with each person individually. I have come to know people both by name and by habitual food preferences. For instance, Three Helpings customarily declined the banana, as did Chicken Hawk (as he referred to himself a couple weeks back upon receiving a fourth helping of chicken wings). But Jolly Man accepted his fruit-of-the-day with a wide smile and a 'thank you very much young lady!'

I love serving these people. I love listening to their bantering when they pass my food item of the night. I love to tease them for not eating enough fruit or vegetables. These people are such a joy to serve and I hope that I may continue in this ministry for a long time to come!
~Leslie (Guest Blogger)

Locked Out

2009-04-08T08:09:00.003-04:00

One of the difficulties we face on Tuesday nights is locked doors. It is not because Triune Mercy Center does not provide keys, but that the key holder may not attend that night. Usually it is the room that has the ice machine that is locked. When this happens we make a trip to the local Hardees across the street and beg for some ice. Since we brew tea, it is essential that we have ice to serve the tea cold. But last Tuesday, it was the kitchen that was locked. Now that is a problem. Here we were with about 40 homeless and 14 volunteers staring at the locked door. All telephone calls for help resulted only in voice mail. So naturally we turned to some skills by some of the homeless for help. With the help of a credit card and a small knife, we had the door open within minutes. I did not feel too comfortable doing that but it was essential for our ministry. Proclaiming Gospel is the center piece of our ministry, but the meals are the means to accomplish that.

We celebrated this Holy Week by reading through the Gospel of John describing the death, burial, and the resurrection of Jesus Christ. We reflected on the implication of those events for our lives today. Because He lives, we can also live too. Lee Headly was kind enough to lead us through the reading of theses powerful scriptures.

After serving 67 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers, we had a drawing for sleeping bags. I was pleased to see one of the homeless who had asked for a blanket win a sleeping bag. The above picture is one who was fortunate enough to receive one. Even though it is spring, some of the nights are very cold and there are still needs for blankets and sleeping bags. We always welcome any who donate these items for our friends downtown.

Happy Easter.

~Marc

Lost and Found

2009-03-28T11:07:00.005-04:00

Allen is a unique individual. He may be down on his luck and live in the Sally (Salvation Army), but he hasn’t stop trying. He related to Lee, one our volunteers, that he has continued to look for work where there seems to be no work. Every conversation these days downtown is how difficult it is for the homeless to find any type of work. It seems to be nonexistent. But Allen kept trying. He applied at one company who told him "they did not need anyone but to come back later". He did and they continued to tell him the same thing over and over until finally he got the job. Persistence does pay off.

In addition to a new job, Lee Headley presented Allen with a new Bible last Tuesday night. Not just any Bible, but a large print study Bible. Lee has been mentoring Allen each Tuesday night so he wanted to give him something special. After writing his name in the Bible and that it was presented by Food for Life on the inside, Lee took it to have his name printed in gold on the outside. Allen was so happy. Thanks Lee for caring for the less fortunate.

On a sad note, I talked with a homeless man who was very distraught. His bicycle had been stolen and he was looking for the person who stole it. He told me that he had a “shank’ in his pocket and was prepared to use it. We talked at great length about the consequences of him following through with his plan. I tried to be logical to someone who was emotional and was not having much success. I realize that a bike is much more important to a homeless person than to me. At the end of our conversation we prayed about the situation and he left. I continued to pray that he would find his bike but not one who stole it.

Allen found a job but another lost a bicycle. The problems of the homeless really are not much different from ours. Many in this economy will lose jobs, homes, spouses, children, and a way of life. The only difference is that most of us have families to provide some support. Most of the homeless have lost that long ago.
~Marc

Guest Blogger

2009-03-22T00:49:00.004-04:00

Dear readers,

My perceptions from attending Food For Life are in the paragraphs and possibly the entries to follow. What I've seen at FFL are people who may not be used to serving serve, and those who aren't used to being served sitting and enjoying a meal prepared especially for them. The love that these people receive from the people with FFL is unrivaled.

I'm sorry that i must ask you to forgive the late post. I have many excuses that I could use, but none of which would be satisfactory or the whole truth (as the whole truth is that I am basically just a failure at doing things on time). The following is my journal entry from last Tuesday night after attending FFL.

'I walked in the United Ministries kitchen at 6:41pm, and already the place was buzzing with activity. People were chopping and washing and peeling and unbagging and unwrapping and, in short, creating culinary masterpieces.....ok.....maybe not MASTERPIECES, but when assembled with love, the simplest dish can become a true work of art. As I began to search out an area that needed assistance, conversations and light banter whirled back and forth over my head. The chef at the stove let out a loud, deep, belly-laugh at the comment made by the young man chopping zucchini in the far corner. Smiles lit the faces of all in earshot. I decided that the workers had everything under control in the kitchen, and moved to the cafeteria to see if i could be of more assistance there. Already the room was filling up with people, both workers and homeless. Walking into this room filled with hungry, hurting, lonely, mistreated, and unloved people made me realize what an awesome God we serve; He would take the least assuming of us and make us heirs with his own Son, the Maker of heaven and earth. It's absolutely incredible.

The realization that sometimes we consciously or subconsciously think we are better than those who have no home or are addicted to drugs or alcohol made me sick. I am such a selfish, undeserving person to even hint at thinking I am better than anyone in that room. I am here to glorify my Savior, and for that reason alone. Who am I to think that God, who by HIS mercy and grace alone decided to create me to live for Him, would love these people any less than He loves me?

Later that evening during the worship service, all the songs were about grace. Once again I was pointed to how inept I am versus how capable and loving God is. A man two seats down from me shushed another man when he spoke too loudly during the message. He then turned back to face Paul with wrapped attention. He followed along in a borrowed bible the whole message, then quietly closed it and returned it to it's shelf after the message was over.

The rest of the night went smoothly with joking between servers and those waiting in line, serious conversations over hot meals, and the worship team jammin out on the small stage. The workers are few, but the harvest is many. As the night ended, that sentence reverberated through my brain. We are the workers. May I never forget that I have been called to harvest right where I've been placed.'

God is alive and well in the inner city of Greenville, SC. We would be sadly mistaken to believe otherwise. Prayer is essential to FFL's success though. Continue to partner with us in prayer to our great God that He would soften hearts, release those in darkness, and free those in bondage.

- Leslie Dye

Our Inheritance

2009-03-11T10:28:00.002-04:00

How many of us dream of receiving an inheritance from a rich relative? We all have heard stories of those that receive such a windfall, but a year later they are no better off. The inheritance just seemed to evaporate. Tonight Lee Headley preached a message from 1st Peter about an inheritance that will not fade away. In fact, it is incorruptible. Every thing in this life will perish one way or another. Even the food we served Tuesday night, if not eaten, will spoil. But this inheritance will not spoil. Also, this inheritance is undefiled. Unlike us it is without sin. And finally, this inheritance will not fade away. Everything is this life will fade away but this inheritance of eternal life will never fade away. In fact, it is eternal. Even though most of us will never receive an inheritance from a rich uncle, this inheritance promised in 1st Peter is available for everyone who believes. This was a powerful message that gives hope for everyone, including those who live on the street struggling with their day to day problems. I had one homeless tell me that this message was a real encouragement to him. Thanks Lee for sharing this message of hope which is available for all of us.

I would like to ask everyone to pray for Chris who I wrote about in my last post. He had expressed a desire to quit drinking. This week he came in stone sober. He said he had not drunk any alcohol during the week. He said that he had spent time in the library and staying away from those that stick it in his face. There was a real change in his demeanor. He expressed concern for others that we don’t usually see in the homeless community. It was a real pleasure talking with him.

Tonight we served 72 meals with the assistance of 12 volunteers. We had the normal requests for over-the-counter medicine and one individual, named Bobby, who we provided a bus ticket back home. We all like to see those that want to reunite with their families. Other requests were for blankets and sleeping bags. Even though the weather is getting warmer, the nights are still cool. Thanks to all who support Food for Life so we can provide some temporary relief for those who are on the street.
~Marc

A Testimony

2009-03-04T09:12:00.004-05:00

Last night we were blessed to hear a powerful testimony of how Lynn Irby went from the street on drugs to the church teaching others about the saving faith in Jesus Christ. A testimony is a powerful example of how God can change a person’s life. Many people may not agree whether God exists or not, and some may disagree with certain points of theology but when someone stands before a room full of hurting people testifies to God’s grace there is no denying the truth of the Gospel. There were two major responses to this testimony. One man was brought literally to his knees and he accepted Christ as his Savior and others seem to get mad at the obvious change in her life. This was evidenced by a couple of incidents between some of the homeless. Fortunately, all of these were defused before someone got hurt.

But there was another response too. Some wanted the same changed life without them changing. They wanted to stop drinking and spending most of their time in jail but they did not believe they could change their habits. Chris had a bottle in his pocket to help him relieve the shakes in the morning. He told us that he was going to quit drinking because it was killing him. Of course, he said he was not making any promises because he did not want to lie. Tony suggested that he pour out his whiskey if he was serious. He said he could not do that. Paul suggested that he quit trying stop drinking and focus on accepting Christ as his Savior. He suggested to Chris that the real problem was sin. Until he recognized that he was just as bad as others on the street and everyone else in the world, he could not stop acting in response to his sin. Chris responded that he could never be a “Jesus Crispy”, no offense to us. We told him we took no offense but that was his only hope. Finally after talking, we all prayed for Chris and asked God to do the work in Chris’s heart for the change he desired. Then Chris left and headed for the mission.

We had a big crowd Tuesday night. We served 85 hot meals and lots of coffee with the assistance of 18 volunteers. As every week, we had many requests for blankets, aspirin, and clothing. There are so many needs. Some never ask for anything and others ask for something every week. As I looked in the crowd, I was surprised to see Rufus. I had not seen him in years. I remember when Paul first started his ministry; he bought Rufus a pair of shoes. He is a quiet man and but very respectful. It is good to see some of the folks that came each Tuesday night over 6 years ago.
~Marc

Volunteers that Minister

2009-02-25T08:46:00.003-05:00

Last night we served 115 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers. We were blessed again to have the youth from Brookwood Church come and serve. We appreciate their leader’s concern that their youth develop a desire to help the less fortunate. Many of us may take for granted our homes and families until we realize there are some that have neither. If we just spend time loving on those who don’t have those things, it will change them and us.

Another group of volunteers that come consistently each week are students from the Evangelical Institute of Greenville. They provide the music and also minister the Gospel to the homeless. They truly have a heart for the less fortunate. When Paul can not attend we can always depend on these students to continue the work of the ministry. Last Tuesday night one of the students, Lincoln, brought the message from Romans 6:10-18. It was a powerful message on sin and the need to totally surrender our lives to God through Jesus Christ. That is a message for everyone, homeless and volunteers.

Clearly, our numbers have been increasing over the last few weeks. Just 3 weeks ago we were only serving about 40 meals and now it is almost 3 times that amount. Many have theories about why the numbers vary so much, but I honestly can not figure it out. I know we constantly see new faces along with some of the regulars that come and go. Regardless, we are pleased to serve anyone and everyone. Please pray that God will always provide the resources to help these folks and that God will change their lives for eternity.
~Marc

Are You Poor?

2009-02-18T10:17:00.007-05:00

Hello FFLM Friends,
First of all I would like to say thank you to all of the people that are faithful followers of the Lords work here at Food For Life. We couldn't do what we do with out your support. It takes all types of support. We value those that are faithful givers and those that serve food and drink along with those that minister. What ever form your giving, all are giving from the heart. As a caring body of Christ like disciple makers, this is what we are called to do. We give of ourselves because of the way God has given to us. He gave his life as a ransom for many.

This week it was my pleasure to continue to teach out of James 1;5 if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach. Last week we focused on the fact that God is a good and God gives good gifts. Say that five times real fast! God doesn't hold back His goodness. In fact, He gives it liberally and without reproach. Our focus this week was on the word "ask". Does a person without need ask for something he already has? No, Jesus said in Matthew 5:3 Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the Kingdom of God. Only those who are spiritually bankrupt are in need. In the world if you go to the bank for a loan you must have good credit and a bank account with money in it. In other words you can't be in need. My dad likes to say "the bank only hands out umbrellas when the sun is shining". In the Kingdom of God those that are in need of a gift from God are prime candidates. We must ask, that is what we do to receive from God. Imagine that! We ask! It doesn't matter if we are already walking out the Gospel of Christ or in need of the Gospel of Christ, Just ask with a contrite heart, and receive!

This week we served 110 plates of food, with the help of 12 faithful volunteers. Please pray for Micheal. It is a man we have been ministering to for years. The doctors gave him some bad news this week They told him he has cancer, and it is terminal. Micheal has made many professions of faith, and we are praying that he will surrender and persevere to the end!

~Chef Paul

Tuesday Give Away

2009-02-12T17:34:00.003-05:00

Last Tuesday night was extra special for some fortunate folks. One of our wonderful supporters purchased 25 backpacks and stuffed them with all the necessities for life on the street. There was much anticipation during the drawing and the winners were more than willing to have their picture made. Thanks to those who made the evening an extra special time for every one.

Paul continued to teach from James on wisdom. He related that the real wisdom is the Gospel which is Christ crucified on the cross for the lost. Without this particular wisdom, we have no hope in this life or the life to come. This revelation gives us wisdom in dealing with the difficulties of life and we can truly say “count it all joy when we fall into various trials” because we know that either He will take us through or take us home. Either way, there is joy.

We made a big pot of coffee this week but most preferred either water or tea. One homeless mentioned to me that he could not drink much coffee when there is a full moon. I knew that the moon had an effect on the oceans but I didn’t know it spices up the caffeine. However, we did not have any problem serving 40 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers.
~Marc

God's Wisdom

2009-02-04T10:38:00.003-05:00

What is wisdom? Does wisdom from God differ from the wisdom of this world? Last Tuesday night we were fortunate to have Jason (Paul’s brother) bring the message from the book of James. He continued to teach on verses 5 through 8 about wisdom. From the world’s point of view, knowledge and wisdom are closely related. However, knowledge and wisdom from God is very different. Real wisdom is more than the knowledge of God’s word. Jason gave an example of a friend that had lots of theological knowledge, but lived a life that did not reflect the wisdom of God which was evident by his life style. So how do we get God’s wisdom? In James, it simply says to ask God. But Jason pointed out in verse 5 that there are conditions. First we have to ask in faith not doubting the goodness of God. Also, God will freely give us wisdom in order to represent Him to the world. And finally, as someone pointed out in our discussion, God gives wisdom to develop a relationship with us. Wisdom must be used to glorify God and not for our selfish desires.

Every week, we see new faces. This week as we arrived, there was a lady dressed in western clothes in a motorized wheel chair waiting to get in. She rode in and found an electrical outlet to recharge her chair. After I brought in the food, I was surprised to find her walking around in the kitchen talking to the other volunteers. I guess the chair was her mode of transportation.

Another group of new faces were from Seacoast Church in Greenville. They were especially helpful washing all of the pots and pans. Most volunteers don’t gravitate to this job but they were willing to serve regardless of the task. They assisted 14 other volunteers to serve 68 hot meals on a very cold night. The numbers were down this week because most had probably found a warm place and were not willing to venture out in the cold.
~Marc

Youth Night

2009-01-28T07:54:00.003-05:00

Even though Food for Life is primarily a homeless ministry, we do encourage anyone who desires to study God’s Word to attend each Tuesday night. Many come as volunteers and others, who are less fortunate, come for fellowship and a hot meal. Many of these folks have a home and some live at the Salvation Army which is within walking distance from Triune Mercy Center.

Some of our visitors are youth groups whose leaders want to expose their youth to the less fortunate to instill in them a desire for helping the poor and developing a sense of gratefulness for what they have. Many do not have any concept of what the less fortunate are like or what they go through each day. Last Tuesday night we had to the privilege of having approximately 60 youth from Brookwood and Word of Life Church. Add that number to the 54 homeless we served and you have a big crowd.

Our good friend, Lee Headley, brought the message titled “Counterfeit Christian”. Using scripture, he discussed the characteristics of a counterfeit verses true Christian. It was a very thought provoking message since in this area everyone claims to be a Christian but there seems to be very little fruit. A special thanks to Lee for substituting for Paul. Next week Paul will continue teaching from the book of James. I can’t wait.

As always, there are many needs each Tuesday night. Fortunately, the youth brought coats and blankets for distribution. These are necessary almost every week during the winter. One lady had a special request for dental grip for her teeth. Bonnie went to the store to purchase the much needed item and received a kiss on the forehead from a very grateful lady. It was a small item by most standards but it meant everything to the one in need. We can not meet every need but we desire to help as much as we can each Tuesday night.
~Marc

Cold Cold Cold

2009-01-21T09:20:00.003-05:00

Last Tuesday night it was cold, cold, and cold. It was more than cold, it was freezing. The temperature on the sign across the street from Triune registered 23 degrees. With the wind chill factor, I am sure it was probably in the teens. With a night like this there is no doubt there will be many coming in to get warm but I always wonder if we will have enough volunteers. However, I was surprised to have a small group from our church to show up to volunteer. Along with the regulars, we had 20 volunteers to help make one very large pot and two small pots of coffee, and serve 90 hot meals.

Paul continued teaching in the book of James. He focused on verse 5 that states that if you lack wisdom ask God and He will give it to us liberally. That should appeal to everyone because we all desire wisdom. But Paul pointed out that this wisdom is not of this world He defined wisdom in I Corinthians 1:30 that Christ Jesus is the wisdom from God. And God gave that wisdom liberally to the world by giving up his Son to die and take the punishment for our sins.

During Paul’s teaching, there was some distraction from a few who were not interested in his message but were interested settling an argument that probably started before they arrived. Paul immediately asks them to leave. It was amazing that even these guys are respectful enough to leave. Most are very respectful and listen but there are always a few that will distract the message because of their own agenda.
~Marc

Trials and Tribulations

2009-01-15T11:06:00.004-05:00

The more I go downtown, the more I realize that problems of the homeless are no different than others in society. They struggle with unemployment, lost loves, drugs, and mental illness just like other people. The only difference is that they are homeless while the rest of us have a home. It might be a home with a mortgage payment way over due or a home of a relative or a parent. During this current economy everyone is affected by inadequate housing. Because of this situation, I wonder if the ranks of the homeless may increase in the future causing a shortage of funds for agencies that try to help the unfortunate. I know that a small percentage of homeless chose this as a life style. But most don’t. Most wonder, as one individual I talked to last night, how they got there. This individual said his father died and no one in his family loved him so he just took off and ended up in Greenville. He had adapted to homelessness. He works like everyone else but he lives in abandoned building. He developed a relationship with a “significant other” who cared about him and for what ever reason was willing to live on the street too. So he had sort of a family. He had someone who cared about him. Unfortunately for him last week she left him. He came in drunk and crying. He felt like no one loved him. We talked at length about his family. I suggested he try to contact them. He was reluctant to do this because he said they did not love him. I suggested that the worse that could happen is that he would be right. But the best that could happen, he could be wrong. And if he was wrong it could change his life. He decided to contact his sister that has not heard from him since 1992. I thought to myself that his family probably would be shocked to hear from him after all this time.

Paul continued to teach from the book of James. In verses 2 through 6 of chapter 1, there is an understanding that everyone will experience trials and tribulations, not just the homeless. It does not say “if” but “when” you experience. Of course, this is the result of our bad choices and/or because we live in a sinful world. But we will experience those trials regardless. God does not create those things but He does expect difficult reactions for Christians. First of all, these difficulties can produce patience. Also, it allows us to evaluate our faith. One aspect of saving faith is perseverance. Is our reaction to trials and tribulations result in turning to God or do we turn from God and sin? This is a real opportunity for us to peak into our own heart.

This Tuesday, we served 80 meals with the assistance of 21 volunteers. I want to thank John Hatfield, one of our volunteers, for the photograph of a poster in the room where we serve the homeless.
~Marc

Count It All Joy

2009-01-09T08:10:00.012-05:00

Last Tuesday night I had a headache and considered not making it downtown. Then I thought, many of the homeless probably have a headache too and would rather be some where else. So I went any way. During the night, I had two individuals request something for a headache. We don't always have every thing requested but tonight I was prepared for a headache.

Tonight Paul started teaching in the book of James. He gave all of us some background on who wrote the book (no, that is not a trick question) and it's context. He spent some time on chapter 1 verses 2 and 3 which states there is joy in trials and tribulations for a Christian. For a non-Christian trials brings bitterness and discontent. But for a Christian these same trials will result in patience. God is interested in our trusting Him regardless of the circumstances and He desires use difficult times to produce spiritual fruit in our lives.

Our numbers were off from previous weeks. We served 55 meals with the assistance of 14 volunteers. Some of the homeless receive some type of federal assistance which usually runs out the middle of the month. Later on in the month when funds are low, many more show up for a meal. For what ever reason, we look forward to seeing all who come in each Tuesday night.
~Marc

What is a Church?

2008-12-31T16:53:00.007-05:00

What is a church? The dictionary states it is either “a building where religious services are performed” or “a group of people who follow the same Christian beliefs”. I wondered about this definition last Tuesday night because an individual left during Paul’s teaching mumbling on his cell phone “this better be important because I am in church”. This individual was not homeless or poor but he was attending the service right along side with all types of people; black and white, rich and poor, Christian and non-Christian, volunteers and non-volunteers, smart and not so smart. All types of people come downtown for various reasons. Sure there are some whose eyes glaze over when Paul teaches just waiting for “amen” so they can eat. But there are so many that take it seriously. They bring their Bibles and listen and expect to receive a greater knowledge of the Word of God. Also, they expect to share it with others downtown. Earlier, in Paul’s ministry, we would hear many homeless say that our ministry was their church. But Paul was always quick to say, that we do minister to individuals but we were not a church. He wanted to encourage everyone to become part of a local church where they could receive on going encouragement and accountability. This is very important. However, I know many who go to church and do not allow themselves to receive any accountability. So are we a church? We are in a building where religious services are performed and we are a body of believers who, each in his own way, ministers to others. We probably are not a church in the true sense of the word, but we are a type of a church who ministers by providing food, clothing and blankets, and preaching true Biblical principles and providing accountability for those who seek it.

An individual attended last Tuesday night who was instrumental in helping Paul begin his ministry by providing a location for his Bible Study. Paul had an idea to start this ministry in his house but this individual offered a downtown location free of charge. Good thing it was free because many nights no one showed up. But Paul told him that he could see the room filled with people listening and worshipping God. And within a year, that is exactly what happened. Even to the point that the fire marshal would not allow us to continue because there were too many people. Then through some downtown connections, Paul was allowed to continue at Triune Mercy Center. Again, it was free which allowed the ministry to continue to grow. As an example, last Tuesday night, we served 100 meals with the help of 24 volunteers which included a girls “fast pitch” softball team called the “Carolina Crush”. But in the beginning a good night was 4 or 5 people and Paul and his family were the volunteers. Now the volunteers come from local employers, all types of churches, homeschoolers, and even softball teams. It seems there are many who want to minister but don’t know how. We provide a venue to allow them to grow spiritually by ministering to others. And what is important, now there others that have that same vision that Paul had downtown 6 years ago; to see a room full of individuals listening to the Word and worshiping God.

Thanks to everyone who attended in 2008. Because of your compassion, Food for Life served 3,919 meals with assistance of 2,327 volunteer hours. I want to wish everyone a prosperous new year and look forward to 2009 to see what God will do in the lives of everyone who attends each Tuesday night. God Bless.
~Marc

Christmas Gifts

2008-12-23T10:01:00.006-05:00

Christmas is here. We had a great time last night sharing the real meaning of Christmas through song and the scripture in the gospel of Luke. Paul presented a powerful sermon and one individual made a profession of faith in Christ at the end of the message.

The Woodside Church of God came down with their youth and brought blankets and coats. There was a wide selection and many left with bags of clothes. Food for Life gave each person a Christmas card with $5.00 in McDonald’s food coupons. I wondered how many would show up at McDonalds at one time. Homeless Dwayne received an oil lamp with fuel and a flashlight with batteries. He was all smiles because that is very useful living in an abandoned building. We usually don’t give money but we made an exception for homeless Eric. He received $10 from his favorite volunteer.

After we cleaned up, we gave some a ride. Eric went to the Mission, Frog to his place of residence across town, and Johnny and Debra on the way back. Since we only have two seats, the rest of us were crammed into the back of the van. I am thankful we were not stopped because we would probably look a little suspicious to the authorities.
~Marc

Powerful Testimony

2008-12-18T11:39:00.001-05:00

Another great Tuesday night at Triune Mercy Center; we served 85 hot meals with the assistance of 18 volunteers. Two of the volunteers are friends of ours who are missionaries from Alaska. They are in Greenville for the holidays and came down to help Paul. We appreciated their help and especially enjoyed visiting with them.

The highlight of the night was a testimony by a man who 6 months ago was on the street with his children. He testified how God has changed him and his family through the ministry of Food for Life. It was very powerful since many of the homeless knew him personally and could visibly see the impact of God’s grace through Jesus on his life. That is what we all desire for everyone each Tuesday night.

Next week we will meet on Monday night instead Tuesday. We changed the day in order for Paul to attend before he leaves on a trip to Colorado. We have been planning for a great Christmas feast and some gift surprises for all who attend. We are grateful for Adair who raised a considerable amount to fund our Christmas party. This time of year we enjoy getting together to not only experience the festive atmosphere but also to celebrate the birth of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Merry Christmas to all from Paul and Food for Life Ministries and may everyone have a happy new year.
~Marc

Encouraging Testimony

2008-12-10T16:50:00.002-05:00

GE employees continued to assist other volunteers each Tuesday night. Some volunteers work in the kitchen cooking, washing dishes, and serving the food. Other volunteers come each week to provide the music as they did this week. And occasionally, someone will substitute for Paul if he can not attend. This week Patrick did a great job preaching God’s word for our edification. We all chip in to get the job done each week regardless of the work each performs. This week we served 66 meals with a total of 19 volunteers.

One of the volunteers told me that he had gone through some of the same problems we see every week. He had experienced the same addictions and even jail time among other things. He was now clean and just wanted to volunteer to show others that there is hope, and that they can go from being served to being a servant. I appreciated his testimony because we all desire to see change in their lives. That is why we come down each Tuesday night.

The above picture is one our friends. He makes walking sticks to sell. This one is not finished but it did look very good. I am amazed at the talent we see every Tuesday. One of the homeless even played the piano while everyone was eating. Regardless of his situation, he was willing to share his talent with all of us.

As a reminder, Food for Life will be on Monday (Dec. 22) instead of Tuesday (Dec. 23) the week of Christmas. We changed the night so Paul could attend. He will be leaving town on Tuesday. The following week we will return to our regular schedule.
~Marc